Suppose that $(X,Y)$ is distributed ranodm 2-vectors having the normal distribution with $\mathbb{E}X=\mathbb{E}Y=0,\mathbb{Var}(X)=\mathbb{Var}(Y)=1,$ and $\text{Cov}(X,Y)=\theta\in(-1,1).$ Show the value of $\mathbb{E}(X^2Y^2).$
The joint pdf of $(X,Y)$ is $$p(x,y)=\frac{1}{2\pi\sqrt{1-\theta^2}}\exp\left\{-\frac{1}{2(1-\theta^2)} \left [ x^2-2\theta xy+y^2\right ]\right\}.$$
Then $$\mathbb{E}(X^2Y^2)=\int_{-\infty}^{\infty}\int_{-\infty}^{\infty}x^2y^2\cdot p(x,y)\mathrm{d}x\mathrm{d}y.$$ Let $$\begin{cases} u=\frac{x-y}{\sqrt{2}} \\ v=\frac{x+y}{\sqrt{2}} \end{cases}\Rightarrow \mathbb{E}(X^2Y^2)=\int_{-\infty}^{\infty}\int_{-\infty}^{\infty}\frac{(u^2-v^2)^2}{2}\cdot p\left (\frac{u+v}{\sqrt{2}},\frac{u-v}{\sqrt{2}}\right )\mathrm{d}u\mathrm{d}v.$$ But I don't know how to deal with this integral
$$\begin{align*} &\Delta:=\int_{-\infty}^{\infty}\int_{-\infty}^{\infty}\frac{(u^2-v^2)^2}{2}\cdot \exp\left \{-\frac{1}{2(1-\theta^2)}\left [ (1-\theta)u^2+(1+\theta)v^2\right ]\right \}\mathrm{d}u\mathrm{d}v\\ &\quad=4\int_{0}^{\infty}\int_{0}^{\infty}\frac{(u^2-v^2)^2}{2}\cdot \exp\left \{-\frac{1}{2(1-\theta^2)}\left [ (1-\theta)u^2+(1+\theta)v^2\right ]\right \}\mathrm{d}u\mathrm{d}v,\quad \theta\in(-1,1). \end{align*}$$
Here is one approach:
Recall that if $(X,Y)$ is bivariate normal with $X\sim N(\mu_X,\sigma_X^2),Y\sim N(\mu_Y,\sigma_Y^2), \text{Corr}(X,Y)=\rho$, then
$$Y|(X=x)\sim N\left(\mu_Y+\rho{\sigma_Y \over \sigma_X}(x-\mu_X), (1-\rho^2)\sigma^2_Y\right).$$
Now note that $$E[(XY)^2]=\text{Var}(XY)+(E[XY])^2.$$
By Eve's law,
$$\begin{align}\text{Var}(XY)&=E[X^2\text{Var}(Y|X)]+\text{Var}(XE[Y|X])\\ &=E[X^2(1-\rho^2)\sigma^2_Y]+\text{Var}\left(X\left(\mu_Y+\rho{\sigma_Y \over \sigma_X}(X-\mu_X)\right)\right)\end{align},$$ which under your parameters would simplify to $(1-\theta^2)E[X^2]+\theta^2\text{Var}(X^2)=1+\theta^2$ (since $X^2\sim \chi^2_1$).
Further, $$(E[XY])^2=(\text{Cov}(X,Y)+E[X]E[Y])^2,$$
which under your parameters would simplify to $\theta^2.$
The final expression works out to $1+2\theta^2.$