I am wondering if we can Show that $a^2 + b^2 > 2ab$ without using the fact that $(a-b)^2 = a^2 + b^2 -2ab$?
(I'm particularly interested in $0<a<b<1$ but I don't think restricting $a$ and $b$ here matters)
I think I've seen an answer using polar coordinates, so perhaps that way could be used, but can we avoid polar coordinates too?
So to state the question precisely:
can we show that $a^2 + b^2 > 2ab$ without using the fact that $(a-b)^2 = a^2 + b^2 -2ab$, and without using polar coordinates?
basically, I am wondering if there is something like (assuming $a<b$:
$a^2 + b^2 > 2a^2$,
and then somehow showing that $2a^2 > 2ab$
I know that the above way cannot work, because $2a^2$ need not be greater than $2ab$, but perhaps there is some similar approach.
Alternatively, an answer saying why and approach like the one above cannot work (if it cannot work).

Note first that $|ab|=|a||b|\ge ab$ and let $A=|a|, B=|b|$ so that $A^2=a^2, B^2=b^2$. If $A \neq B$, symmetry allows us to choose (rename) so that $A\gt B\gt 0$. The cases of $B=0$ and $A=B$ are straightforward to check.
Then $$a^2+b^2=A^2+B^2=A^2+AB-AB+B^2=A(A+B)-B(A-B)\gt 2AB-B(A-B)\gt 2AB\ge2ab$$