From Wikipedia:
The class of $\sigma$-finite measures has some very convenient properties; $\sigma$-finiteness can be compared in this respect to separability of topological spaces. Some theorems in analysis require σ-finiteness as a hypothesis. For example, both the Radon–Nikodym theorem and Fubini's theorem are invalid without an assumption of $\sigma$-finiteness (or something similar) on the measures involved.
Though measures which are not σ-finite are sometimes regarded as pathological, ...
I was wondering what makes $\sigma$-finite measures so natural to mathematicians (they often think of them in the first place when it comes to measures, while I as a layman don't have that instinct), well-behaved (as opposite to "pathological") and important (appearing in conditions in many theorems such as Radon-Nikodym, Lebesgue decomposition and Fubini's Theorems)?
In what sense/respect, can $\sigma$-finiteness be compared to separability of topological spaces?
For example, are most or all properties true for finite measures also true for $\sigma$-finite measures, but not for general infinite measures? If yes, why is that?
Are all above because of equivalence of $\sigma$-finite measures to probability measures? If yes, how is it the reason?
Thanks and regards!
When it comes to intuition, $\sigma$-finiteness is a property that can be said to be part of the intuition for measures in the first place. That a set has "infinite size" means intuitively that it consists of lots of parts of small size, not of few parts of "infinite size". There exists other classes of measure spaces that follow this intuition to some degree (strictly localizable measure spaces), but $\sigma$-finiteness is the most natural one.
Now let $(X,\Sigma,\mu)$ be a $\sigma$-finite measure space. Then there exists a countable family of finite measure spaces $(X_i,\Sigma_i,\mu_i)$ such that
So one can think about $\sigma$-finite measure spaces as a family of finite measure spaces lying "side by side". That there are only countably many of them makes sure that combining them works well. This decomposition makes it for example obvious that the Radon-Nikodym theorem for $\sigma$-finite measure spaces is really no more general than the Radon-Nikodym theorem for finite measure spaces.
Finally: I don't think one should make too much of an anology with separable topological spaces, there are conditions in measure theory that can more naturally be seen as an analog to separability (being countably generated and having countable Maharam type).