I have difficulties to solve this system of inequalities. Normally you would solve it like a normal system of equations just writing $\le$ or $\ge$ instead of $=$. But these contain an absolute value which confuses me. The system I want to solve is this:
$$ \left\{ \begin{array}{c} |x-y| \le 1 \\ |x+y| \le 1 \end{array} \right. $$
I would have written it like that
$$ \left\{ \begin{array}{c} -1 \le x-y \le 1 \\ -1 \le x+y \le 1 \end{array} \right. $$
And by adding the inequalities I would obtain $-1 \le x \le 1$. I can’t get $y$ though.
I don’t understand how my textbook got a third inequality out of the two initial ones
$$ \left\{ \begin{array}{c} -1 \le x-y \le 1 \\ -1 \le y-x \le 1 \\ -1 \le x+y \le 1 \end{array} \right. $$
But with that they can solve the system like so: $(1)+(3): -1 \le x \le 1$ and $(2)+(3): -1 \le y \le 1$.
Let $S$ be the set of points in the cartesian plane which solve the system. In the last line of your question you found that $S$ is contained (and not equal) to the square $[-1,1]\times [-1,1]$.
Note that $|x-y| \le 1$ is the strip between the lines $y=x-1$ and $y=x+1$. $|x+y| \le 1$ is the strip between the lines $y=-x-1$ and $y=-x+1$. What is the intersection of these two strips? Make a drawing and you will find $S$.