These are facts from article by V. Cortes, "Realization of special Kähler manifolds as parabolic spheres". So, I tried to understand them by using the simplest example where $m = 2$ but unsuccessfully.
- Let us have complex vector space $V=T^{*}C^{m}$ with standard complex symplectic form $\Omega =\sum_{i=1}^{m}dz^{i}\wedge dw^{i}$, and $\tau : V\to V$ is standard real structure of $V$ with set of fixed points $V^{\tau }=T^{*}R^{m}$.
- Then $\gamma := \sqrt{-1} \Omega (.,\tau .)$ defines a Hermitian form. A holomorphic immersion $\phi : M\to V$ of a complex manifold $M$ into $V$ is called non-degenerate if $\phi ^{*}\gamma$ is non-degenerate.
- If $\phi$ is non-degenerate then $\phi^{*}\gamma$ defines a Kähler metric $g$ on $M$. If, additionally, $\phi$ is a Lagrangian immersion then it induces a torsion-free flat connection $\nabla$ on $M$.
How do we get metric $g$ and connection $\nabla$ on $M$?
What does it mean that $\phi^{*}\gamma$ is non-degenerate?
Your questions are answered in section 1.3 of this paper. The basic ideas are as follows.
The form $\phi^\ast \gamma$ is just the pullback of $\gamma$ by $\phi$: For any $m \in M$ and vectors $u, v \in T_m M$, $$(\phi^\ast \gamma)_m(u, v) = \gamma(d\phi_m(u), d\phi_m(v)).$$ So nondegeneracy of $\phi^\ast \gamma$ means nondegeneracy as a form, i.e. $$(\phi^\ast \gamma)(u, v) = 0 \text{ for all $v$ if and only if $u = 0$}.$$
The induced metric $g$ on $M$ is $g = \mathrm{Re}(\phi^\ast \gamma)$.
Section 1.3 of the linked paper explains how to get a flat, torsion-free connection $\nabla$ on $M$ in the case that $\phi$ is a totally complex holomorphic immersion. Proposition 6 tells us that a holomorphic immersion is Lagrangian and nondegenerate if and only if it is Lagrangian and totally complex. Hence we can apply the totally complex case here to get our flat, torsion-free connection.