I would like to make sure I'm right with the proof below.
Any corrections or suggestions are welcomed!!
My proof:
Suppose $\lambda$ is an eigenvalue of $T$.
$\Rightarrow \exists v\neq0$ s.t $Tv=\lambda v$
Now, consider $<Tv,w>$ for all $w \in V$.
Note that $<Tv,w> = <v,T^\ast w>=<\lambda v,w>=<v,\overline{\lambda}w> \forall w \in V.$
$\Rightarrow \left \langle v,T^\ast w - \overline{\lambda}w \right \rangle=0$ for all $w \in V$
$\Rightarrow \left \langle v, (T^\ast - \overline{\lambda} I)w \right \rangle=0$ for all $w \in V$
$\Rightarrow T^\ast - \overline{\lambda} I =0$
$\Rightarrow T^\ast v = \overline{\lambda} v$
Since $v \neq 0$, $\overline{\lambda}$ is an eigenvalue of $T^\ast$ as desired.
Conversely, suppose $\overline{\lambda}$ is an eigenvalue of $T^\ast$ with an eigenvector $v$.
Now, consider $<w, T^\ast v>$ for all $w \in V$.
Note that $<w,T^\ast v>=<Tw, v>=<w,\overline{\lambda}v>=<\lambda w, v>$
$\Rightarrow \left \langle Tw - \lambda w,v \right \rangle =0$ for all $w \in V$
$\Rightarrow$ By similar reason above, $T-\lambda I=0$
$\Rightarrow Tv=\lambda v$
Since $v \neq 0$, $\lambda$ is an eigenvalue of $T$.
Hence, $\lambda$ is an eigenvalue of $T$ iff $\overline{\lambda}$ is an eigenvalue of $T^\ast$.
Your proof doesn't work. There are two major problems.
So, in 2. I brought up that you want to prove that $(\exists w\in V\setminus\{0\})\ (T^*-\overline\lambda I)w = 0.$ In other words, $\ker(T^*-\overline\lambda I) \neq \{0\}$. By rank and nullity theorem, this is the same as proving that $T^*-\overline\lambda I$ is not surjective. Assume the contrary, that it is surjective. Then, as you showed, we would have $\langle v, (T^*-\overline\lambda I)w \rangle = 0$, for all $w\in V$, but since we assumed that $T^*-\overline\lambda I$ is surjective, it means that $v$ is orthogonal to the whole $V$. But this is only possible if $v = 0$, which is contradiction with the assumption that $v$ is an eigenvector, and therefore non-zero.
Now we have $\lambda$ eigenvalue of $T$ implies that $\overline\lambda$ is eigenvaule of $T^*$. The other direction follows immediately by applying the proven implication on $T^*$ instead of $T$ and noting that $(T^*)^* = T$ and $\overline{\overline{\lambda}} = \lambda$.