I just proved that "In every tangent quadrilateral the sums of the lengths of opposite sides are qual. Conversely, every quadrilateral with this property is a tangent quadrilateral".
Now I am a little bit confused with the following property: "There are three lines thorugh a point X and three lines thorugh a point Y, and the intersections build a (distorted) 3 times 3 grid. Show that if two diagonal quadrilaterals are tangential quadrilaterals in this grid => then the big quadrilateral is also a tangential quadrilateral"
Do you have any suggestions? I have problems visualizing this text.

look at AFCD: AD+CF=CD+AF look at ABCF: AF+BC=CF+AB
so you get: AD+CF+AF+BC=CD+AF+CF+AB
that is : AD+BC=CD+AB, you already proof the first part. so ABCD is the tangential quadrilateral.
if you want to draw the circle, simply make the bisectors of A and C, they cross at L, the L is the center of the circle.