In the book by Halmos ($FDVS$) the tensor product of two vector spaces U and V is defined as the dual of the vector space of all the bilinear forms on the direct sum of U and V. Is there a generalised form of this for the direct sums of more than two vector spaces? Is there a relation between the space of all multilinear forms on the direct sum of $V_1$,$V_2$,$V_3$,...,$V_k$ with their tensor product.
Please explain without invoking other algebraic objects such as modules,rings etc and by using the concepts regarding vector spaces only (as the book assumes no such background either, it is unlikely that any reader of that book will benefit from such an exposition). Everywhere I searched, I found the explanation in terms of those concepts only and being unfamiliar to those I couldn't get them at all. Thanks in advance.
What is a bilinear form? Naively, it is a certain kind of set-function $\phi\colon V\times W\to \Bbbk$ (where $\Bbbk$ is the base field over which our vector spaces are defined). More cleanly, however, one should think of a bilinear form as an element of the vector space $\DeclareMathOperator{\Hom}{Hom}\Hom_\Bbbk(V,\Hom_\Bbbk (W,\Bbbk))$ where $\Hom_\Bbbk$ is the space of $\Bbbk$-linear (i.e. linear with respect to the scalars in the field $\Bbbk$) maps between vector spaces.
This expresses the fact that evaluating a bilinear from $\phi(v,w)$ in the first variable (plugging in something for $v$) should give a function $\phi(v,-)\colon W\to\Bbbk$ that is linear. So more concisely, we can say that a bilinear form is a linear map in $\Hom_\Bbbk(V,\Hom_\Bbbk(W,\Bbbk))=\Hom_\Bbbk(V,W^*)$, i.e. a linear map from $V$ to the dual of $W$.
What is the tensor product? The tensor product $V\otimes W$ is a gadget which aims to represent bilinear maps as linear maps on a domain which depends naturally on $V$ and $W$. In other words, the tensor product $V\otimes W$ should satisfy the property that $\Hom_\Bbbk(V\otimes W,\Bbbk)\cong\Hom_\Bbbk(V,\Hom(W,\Bbbk))$, i.e. that $(V\otimes W)^*\cong\Hom_\Bbbk(V,W^*)$.
Now, recalling that a vector space $Z$ embeds in its double dual $Z^{**}$, we obtain $V\otimes W\hookrightarrow (V\otimes W)^{**}\cong\Hom_k(V,W^*)^*$. It follows that the tensor product is always contained in the dual of bilinear forms. When $V$ and $W$ are finite-dimensional, then $W^*$ is finite-dimensional, so $\Hom_\Bbbk(V,W^*)\cong (V\otimes W)^*$ is finite-dimensional, so $\Hom_\Bbbk(V,W^*)^*\cong (V\otimes W)^{**}$ is and thus is isomorphic to $V\otimes W$.
To generalize this to multi-linear forms, note that a multilinear form $\phi\colon V_1\times V_2\times\dots\times V_n\to\Bbbk$ should be thought of as an element of the vector space $\Hom_\Bbbk(V_1,\Hom_\Bbbk(V_2,\dots,\Hom_\Bbbk(V_n,\Bbbk))\dots)=\Hom_\Bbbk(V_1,\Hom_\Bbbk(V_2,\dots,\Hom_\Bbbk(V_{n-1},V_n^*))\dots)$. This should be naturally isomorphic to $\Hom_\Bbbk(V_1\otimes V_2\otimes\dots\otimes V_n,\Bbbk)=(V_1\otimes\dots\otimes V_n)^*$, so again $(V_1\otimes\dots\otimes V_n)^{**}\cong\Hom_\Bbbk(V_1,\Hom_\Bbbk(V_2,\dots,\Hom_\Bbbk(V_{n-1},V_n^*)\dots)^*$, i.e. again the double dualr of the multi-variate tensor product should be naturally isomorphic to the dual of the space of multi-linear forms. When the latter is finite-dimensional (if all the $V_i$ are finite-dimensional), then so is its dual, hence so is the double dual of the tensor product.
(There is nothing weird about the fact that the tensor product embeds in the dual of multi-linear forms. Taking a basis vector $v_1\otimes v_2\dots\otimes v_n$, by definition one can evaluate a multi-linear function $\phi\colon V_1\times\dots\times V_n\to\Bbbk$ at it by doing $\phi(v_1,v_2,\dots,v_n)$).
To address the further questions in the comments:
The tensor product $V\otimes W$ of $n$-dimensional $V$ with $m$-dimensional $W$ is (according to the above) an $n\cdot m$-dimensional vector space. More precisely, however, the tensor product $V\otimes W$ is an $n\cdot m$-dimensional vector space equipped with additional structure. This additional structure consists of a single piece of data: a designated isomorphism of the dual of the tensor product $(V\otimes W)^*$ with $\Hom_\Bbbk(V,W^*)$. This means that it does not actually matter which $n\cdot m$-dimensional vector space you consider to be the tensor product, what matters is the additional structure you put on it (or rather on its dual). So in fact every $n\cdot m$-dimensional space can be given the structure of being the tensor product $V\otimes W$, and then there are isomorphisms that preserve this structure, so up to isomorphism there is a unique tensor product.
Compare to how an inner product space is a vector space $V$ with a positive-definite symmetric bilinear form $\phi(-,-)\colon V\times V\to\Bbbk$. Being a bilinear form means that this is really a map in $\Hom_\Bbbk(V,V^*)$, and the other properties (positive-definiteness, symmetry) are properties of that map. Choosing different inner products gives different inner product structures (e.g. a positive weighted dot product versus the usual dot product on $\mathbb R^n$). Nevertheless, all inner product spaces of the same dimension are not only isomorphic as vector spaces, but the isomorphisms can be chosen to preserve the extra structure of the inner product, i.e. they are isometric. So again, up to isomorphism, there is only one inner product space of any particular dimension.