Consider the random walk $X_0, X_1, X_2, \ldots$ on state space $S=\{0,1,\ldots,N\}$ with absorbing states $A=\{0,N\}$, and with $P(i,i+1)=p$ and $P(i,i-1)=q$ for all $i \in S \setminus A$, where $p+q=1$ and $p,q>0$.
Let $T:=\inf \left\{n\in\mathbb{N}:X_{n}\in \left\{0,N \right\}\right\}$ denote the number of steps until the walk is absorbed in either $0$ or $N$.
I don't know why $\mathbb{E}\left\{T\mid X_{1}=k+1\right\}=\mathbb{E} \mathbb\{T | X_0 = k+1\}+1$ for any $k \in S \setminus A$.
I can only provide a strict proof that $$\begin{align} \mathbb{E}\left\{T\mid X_{1}=k\right\}=\mathbb{E} \mathbb\{T | X_0 = k\}+1,\forall k\in \left\{1,\cdots,N-1 \right\} \tag{1} \end{align} $$
But I feel the following equation $(2)$ is not true:
$$\begin{align} &\mathbb{E}\left\{T\mid X_{1}=N\right\}=\mathbb{E} \mathbb\{T | X_0 = N\}+1\tag{2} \\\text{since} \quad &\mathbb{E}\left\{T\mid X_{1}=N\right\}=\frac{p\cdot\mathbf{P}(X_0=N-1)}{p\cdot\mathbf{P}(X_0=N-1)+1\cdot\mathbf{P}(X_0=N)}\tag{3}\\\text{and}\quad &\mathbb{E} \mathbb\{T | X_0 = N\}=0\tag{4} \end{align} $$
I think the equality in $(2)$ does not hold. The expectation on the left has to be $1$, because $\{X_1 = N\} \subset\{T = 1\}$, thus $$\mathbb{E}[T|X_1 = N] = \sum_{k=1}^\infty k \mathbb{P}(T=k|X_1 = N) = \mathbb{P}(T=1|X_1 = N) = 1.$$ The sum on the right is at least $2$ (it actually is $2$), since $T\geq 1$.
Edit: Even if $T$ takes values in $\mathbb{Z}_{\geq 0}$, I still do not see why $$\mathbb{E}[T|X_1 = N] = \mathbb{E}[T|X_0 = N]+1.$$ The right side is now $1$ by definition. Then the left side is $$\mathbb{E}[T|X_1 = N] = \mathbb{P}(T=1|X_1 = N)$$ which is strictly less than one, because $T$ is not Markov, and on the event $\{X_0 = N\}$, $T = 0$.