By definition,
$$ P( X = x \mid \max\{X,Y\} = z ) = \frac{P(X = x, \max\{X,Y\} = z )}{P(\max\{ X,Y \} = z)}.$$ (am I right?)
I've found that
$$P(\max\{X,Y \} = z) = \frac{2z - 1}{36},$$
but I can't find the other expression. I've tried to use Bayes' theorem and it has lead me to nothing.
Assuming X and Y are independent and have a uniform distribution $\mathbf X, \mathbf Y \sim \mathcal{U\{1,6\}}$ (which makes sense for two six-sided dices) we should start with the most immediate conclusions we can make:
$$\eqalign{ P(\mathbf X = x, \mathbf Y = y) &= P(\mathbf X = x) P(\mathbf Y = y) \\ &= \left( {1 \over 6}\right)^2 \\ &= {1 \over 36}}$$
for all $x, y \in \{1, 2, \ldots, 6\}$.
And all possible values for $max \{ \mathbf X, \mathbf Y \}$ given $\mathbf X$ and $\mathbf Y$ are:
And we know that by definition $$P( \mathbf X = x \mid max \{ \mathbf X, \mathbf Y \} = z) = {{P(\mathbf X = x, max \{ \mathbf X ,\mathbf Y \} = z)} \over {P(max \{ \mathbf X , \mathbf Y \} ) = z}}$$
I'll show a solution with intuition and a purely analytical one.
Solution with intuition
From the table we can calculate the probability of an event $A$ by counting all the possible occurences of $(\mathbf X, \mathbf Y)$ in which the event $A$ occurs and divide this by 36 since each $(x, y)$ has a probability of ${1 \over 36}$ to occur.
If $max \{ \mathbf X , \mathbf Y \} = z$ we can see that if $\mathbf X = z$ then $\mathbf Y$ can have any of the $z$ values in $\{ 1, \ldots, z \}$ and if $\mathbf X$ has any of the $z-1$ values in $\{1, \ldots, z-1 \}$ then $\mathbf Y = z$. So these are $z + (z - 1) = 2z - 1$ combinations of $( \mathbf X , \mathbf Y )$ such that $max \{ \mathbf X , \mathbf Y \} = z$ and therefore $P(max \{ \mathbf X , \mathbf Y \} = z) = {2z-1 \over 36}$.
Now lets check $P( \mathbf X = x, max \{ \mathbf X , \mathbf Y \} = z )$.
Clearly if $x \geq z$ then $P( \mathbf X = x, max \{ \mathbf X , \mathbf Y \} = z) = 0$.
From the table we can see that whenever $x \lt z$, then we will have just one combination where $max \{ \mathbf X , \mathbf Y \} = z$ because $\mathbf Y = z$ is the only possible value of $\mathbf Y$. So $P( \mathbf X = x, max \{ \mathbf X , \mathbf Y \} = z) = {1 \over 36}$ for $x \lt z$.
And when $x = z$ then $\mathbf Y$ can take any of the $z$ values where $y \leq z$. So $P(\mathbf X = x, max \{ \mathbf X , \mathbf Y \} = z) = {z \over 36}$ for $x = z$.
In conclusion: $$P(max \{ \mathbf X , \mathbf Y \} = z) = {2z - 1 \over 36}$$ and $$P( \mathbf X = x, max \{ \mathbf X , \mathbf Y \} = z) = \begin{cases} {1 \over 36} & x \lt z \\ {z \over 36} & x = z \end{cases} $$
therefore $$P( \mathbf X = x \mid max \{ \mathbf X , \mathbf Y \} = z) = \begin{cases} {1 \over 2z - 1} & x \lt z \\ {z \over 2z - 1} & x = z \end{cases} $$
Purely analytical solution
Since $\mathbf X$ and $\mathbf Y$ are independent $$P(max \{ \mathbf X , \mathbf Y \} = z) = P( \mathbf X = z, \mathbf Y \leq z) + P( \mathbf X \lt z, \mathbf Y = z)$$ and calculating each summand separately we can see that $$\eqalign{ P( \mathbf X = z, \mathbf Y \leq z) &= P(\mathbf X = z, \mathbf Y = 1) + \cdots + P( \mathbf X = z, \mathbf Y = z) \\ &= {z \over 36} }$$ and $$\eqalign{ P( \mathbf X \lt z, \mathbf Y = z) &= P( \mathbf X = 1, \mathbf Y = z) + \cdots + P( \mathbf X = z-1, \mathbf Y = z) \\ &= {z-1 \over 36} }$$ So $$\eqalign{ P(max\{ \mathbf X , \mathbf Y \} = z) &= P( \mathbf X = z, \mathbf Y \leq z) + P( \mathbf \lt z, \mathbf Y = z) \\ &= {z \over 36} + {z-1 \over 36} \\ &= {2z - 1 \over 36} }$$ For $P( \mathbf X = x, max \{\mathbf X, \mathbf Y\} = z)$ we can see different cases.
If $x \lt z$ then $$\eqalign{ P( \mathbf X = x, max \{ \mathbf X , \mathbf Y \} = z) &= P( \mathbf X = x, \mathbf Y = z) \\ &= {1 \over 36} }$$ If $x = z$ then $$\eqalign{ P( \mathbf X = x, max \{ \mathbf X , \mathbf Y \} = z) &= P( \mathbf X = z, \mathbf Y = 1) + \cdots + P(\mathbf X = z, \mathbf Y = z) \\ &= {z \over 36} }$$ So $$ P( \mathbf X = x, max \{ \mathbf X , \mathbf Y \} = z) = \begin{cases} {1 \over 36} & x \lt z \\ {z \over 36} & x = z \end{cases} $$ therefore $$P( \mathbf X = x \mid max \{ \mathbf X , \mathbf Y \} = z) = \begin{cases} {1 \over 2z - 1} & x \lt z \\ {z \over 2z - 1} & x = z \end{cases} $$