I'm wondering how to find the variance of a conditional discrete random variable. For the example, suppose an insurance company could have 0, 1, 2 or 3 independent losses in a given period with the following probability:
x | P(X=x)
0 | .25
1 | .30
2 | .35
3 | .10
And each loss could be 500, 1500 or 2500 dollar with the following probability:
y | P(Y=y)
500 | .60
1500 | .30
2500 | .10
What would be the variance of of the total loss in a period? Finding the expected value is easy since $$E[A+B] = E[A] + E[B]$$ so by finding the E[Y]=1000, the expected total value is $$\sum_{x=0}^3x*E[Y]*P(X=x)$$ Similarily, $$Var(A+B) = Var(A) + Var(B) + 2Cov(A,B)$$ but since each loss is independent, $Cov(Y,Y)=0$ so $$Var(Y+Y) = Var(Y) + Var(Y)$$ so I thought the total variance would be $$\sum_{x=0}^3x*Var[Y]*P(X=x)$$ However, this conflicts with the result I got from doing a simulation of the same problem. I calculated the expected value of 1300 with variance 585,000, but the simulation had an average 1299 and variance 1,310,276. Clearly I'm doing something wrong.
Your final expression is not all of the variance.
Your $X$ has mean $1.3$ and variance $0.91$; your $Y$ has mean $1000$ and variance $450000$
So the expected total loss is $E[Z]=E[X]E[Y]=1300$ as you say
Use the law of total variance $$\operatorname{Var}(Z)=\operatorname{E}[\operatorname{Var}(Z\mid X)] + \operatorname{Var}(\operatorname{E}[Z\mid X])$$
$$\operatorname{E}[\operatorname{Var}(Z\mid X)] = 1.3 \times 450000 = 585000$$
$$\operatorname{Var}(\operatorname{E}[Z\mid X]) = 1000^2 \times 0.91 = 910000$$
$$\operatorname{Var}(Z) = 585000 + 910000 = 1495000$$ which is closer to your simulation
My simulation in R gives
which is even closer