I have considered the order topology on general ordered sets and came to the following two 'conclusions/conjectures', which I wish to verify:
Let $X$ be an ordered set under a relation $>$, and let $\tau_X$ be it's appropriate order topology.
(1) Then if $>$ is a well order and $X$ uncountable, then $\tau_X$ is not discrete.
(2) If $>$ is a well order, since a well order is isomorphic to some ordinal as an ordered space, then for all $x\in X$ which is not a limit ordinal, we have that $\{ x \}\in \tau_X$.
(3) If $>$ is a dense order, then the singletons are not open.
The question comes from the fact that for a while I thought to myself that the order topology induced by a well order, but I suspect (1) spoils such an answer. The reason I initially thought that it does was (2). (2) seems relatively simple since if $x$ is the successor of $y$ and has a successor $z$, then:
$$ \{x \}= \{ a\in X: a<z \} \cap \{ a\in X: a>y \} \quad \text{and is then open} $$
On the other hand I think that sets of the form:
$$ \tag{*} \underset{i\in [k]}{\bigcap} \{ a\in X: a<z_i \} \cap \underset{j\in [\ell]}{\bigcap} \{ a\in X: a>y_j \} $$
Form a basis of the order topology, and hence (1) and (3) follows.
I would appreciate any corrections, if need be.
As you note, you're basically talking about ordinals $\alpha$ in their order topology.
In these spaces all limit ordinal elements (an ordinal is the set of smaller ordinals) is non-isolated and every non-limit is isolated (such an $\alpha$ is of the form $\beta+1$ for a unique $\beta$, and then $\{\alpha\} = (\beta, \alpha+1)$, which is open in the order topology; this is indeed an intersection of two subbasic elements, as you describe)
If $\alpha$ is uncountable, it contains $\omega$ as an element, and this is not as isolated point (being a limit ordinal). But the only countable infinite ordinal that is discrete is $\omega \simeq \Bbb N$, so in fact all except one infinite ordinals are non-discrete.
In a dense order there indeed are no isolated points: suppose $\{x\}$ were open, then either $x$ is the minimum of $X$ and there is some $x' > x$ such that $\{x\}=\{z \in X: z < x'\}$, but then by being a dense order we have $x''$ with $x < x''< x'$, but this contradicts $\{x\}=\{z \in X: z < x'\}$, as $x''$ is in the right hand side, but not in the left hand side. Similarly when $x$ is the maximum of $X$, and if it's neither, for any $(x_1,x_2)$ that contains $x$ we find elements in between $x_1$ and $x$, showing that the interval never equals $\{x\}$ and the open intervals and half-open segments on the min or max form a base for the order topology.