I'm a little confused by a conditional expectation question:
You have two exponentially distributed random variables, and you need to compute an expectation that looks like $$ E[T_{1}|T_{2} > T_{1}] $$
For example, you and a friend are in tandem $M/M/1$ queues, so the sojourn times will be exponential rvs. What the expected time you will have to wait given that you finish first.
I know that for an exponential rv $$ E[X|X>x] = x + E[X] $$
because of the memoryless property, but I can't see how to relate it to the above problem.
You could find the conditional joint pdf, and integrate...
Another way: consider two independent Poisson processes with rates $\lambda_1$ and $\lambda_2$. These could be realized by taking a combined Poisson process with rate $\lambda_1 + \lambda_2$, where each occurrence is assigned (independently of everything else) to process $1$ with probability $\lambda_1/(\lambda_1 + \lambda_2)$, otherwise to process $2$.
It should then be clear that the conditional distribution of the time of the first occurrence of process $1$, given that this happens before the first occurrence of process $2$ (i.e. that the first occurrence of the combined process is assigned to process $1$), is the same as the distribution of the first occurrence of the combined process. In particular, the conditional expectation is $1/(\lambda_1 + \lambda_2)$.