I've struggled with probability for years. Even the most basic concepts. This is especially something I am not able to understand even after reading for the last 1.5 hours.
Conditional probability is $$ P(A|B)=\frac{P(B\cap A)}{P(B)}. $$ However, I fail to see why $P(A|B)=P(B \cap A)$ cannot be true in itself? Why do we have to divide by $P(B)$?
A video online gave this example. The probability of being a male and an alcoholic is $\sim 2.25\%$. So what is the probability of being an alcoholic given that you are a male? I would say $2.25\%$ but in fact the answer is different. I cannot see how $P(A|B) \neq P(B \cap A)$.
The intuition just isn't there. Is this something I am just supposed to accept and move on?
See, we divide by $P(B)$ since that is the way of restricting the range to only possibilities where $B$ occurs.
If you are an male, the chance might be higher/lower than a non males's combined with the males. Ex: Males have $\frac12$ chance. $\frac13$ of people are males. Non males have $\frac15$ chance. The probability is $\frac13$ given male, but $\frac13\cdot\frac12+\frac23\cdot\frac15=\frac16+\frac2{15}=\frac3{10}$ not given anything.
Take note that the first (given probability) cares about only one type, while the second (probability overall) cares about all types. This is the difference of conditional probability.