Waiting time for 2 events to be both happened (so far) in independent trials

Question

We repeat independent trials when each time more than 2 events can happen:

• event $A$ with probability $p$
• event $B$ (in the complement of $A$) with probability $q$
• something different with probability $1-p-q$

(For example we can consider rolling a die where $A=$"result is 6" and $B=$ "result is 5 or 4").

Problem: what is the expected waiting time for $A$ and $B$ to have both of them happened at least once in the trials so far?

Here is what I have done:

1. I compute the probability that $A$ happens before $B$ in an infinite sequence of trials: $$ P(A \text{ happens before B})=\sum_{k=0}^\infty P(\text{A and B didn't happen in $k$ trials})p $$ $$ = p\sum_{k=0}^\infty (1-q-p)^k=\frac {p}{p+q} $$
2. I assume event $A$ happens before $B$ and compute conditional expected waiting time, that is we compute how long we wait for $A$ to happen assuming $B$ is not going to happen: it is $T$ such that $$ T=1 \cdot P(\text{$A$ happens}|\text{$B$ doesn't happen})+(T+1)\cdot P(\text{$A$ doesn't happen}|\text{$B$ doesn't happen}) $$ that is $$ T=\frac p {1-q}+(T+1)\frac {1-p-q}{1-q} $$ solving fot $T$ we have $$ T=\frac {1-q}{p} $$
3. I compute the expected time to have event $B$ (after $A$ has just happened): $T$ satisfies $$ T=1 \cdot q+ (T+1) \cdot (1-q) $$ that is $T=\frac 1 q$. This time must be added to the time computed in 2 in order to have the first time that both $A$ and $B$ have occurred that is $T=\frac 1 q$.
4. I put all together to compute expected time to have $A$ and $B$ both happened. Call $T$ such expected time, then we must have: $$ T=P(\text{$A$ happens fist})\cdot \left(\frac {1-q}{p}+\frac 1 q\right)+P(\text{$B$ happens fist})\cdot \left(\frac {1-p}{q}+\frac 1 p\right) $$ (the first part follows from computation above, the second by symmetry) then we substitute the probabilities in point 1: $P(\text{$A$ happens fist})=\frac {p}{p+q}$ and $P(\text{$A$ happens fist})=\frac {q}{p+q}$ (by simmetry) and I get the result $$ T=\frac 1 p +\frac 1 q -1. $$ that seems quite implausible.

Questions: What is wrong with this computation? Are there quicker/better ways to do this computation?

Answer 1

It is easy to show that if neither $p$ nor $q$ is $0$, the expectation exists. Let $E$ be the desired expectation. Condition on the result of the first trial.

If $A$ occurs, then the expected additional time for $B$ to occur is $\frac{1}{q}$. If $B$ occurs, the expected additional time for $A$ to occur is $\frac{1}{p}$.

If neither occurs then the expected additional time is $E$. In all cases we have "used up" one trial. Thus $$E=1+p\cdot\frac{1}{q}+q\cdot\frac{1}{p}+(1-p-q)E.$$ Solve for $E$.