A sequence of distinct vectors $\{f_1,f_2,...\}$ belonging to a separable Hilbert space $H$ is said to be a Frame if there exist positive contants $A$, $B$ such that, for $A<B$ and for all $f\in H$: $$A\|f\|^2\leq\sum_{n=1}^\infty |(f,f_n)|^2\leq B \|f\|^2, \ \ \ (\ast)$$ An operator $T$ on $H$ is said "frame operator" of frame $\{f_1,f_2,...\}$, if $$Tf=\sum_{n=1}^\infty (f,f_n) f_n$$ By this the $(\ast)$ becomes, $$A\|f\|^2\leq (Tf,f)\leq B \|f\|^2$$
This is all true in theory, but I've never seen a practical example of frame and, above all frame operator. I emphasize: especially examples of frame operators. Because while I can imagine an example of frame (a set of generators linearly dependent), I can not find an example of frame operator.
They are like answers containing examples and references (books, papers, websites).
Thanks in advance.
An example of a frame operator depends of course on the frame. For a frame $(f_n)_{n \in \mathbb{N}}$ in a Hilbert spaces $\mathcal{H}$, the frame operator $S : \mathcal{H} \to \mathcal{H}$ is, as you mentioned, just defined as $$ S f = \sum_{n \in \mathbb{N}} \langle f, f_n \rangle f_n. \quad \quad (*)$$ To my knowledge, this is the only form in which you can write the frame operator for abstract frames. To obtain "an example of a frame operator", you just plug in the elements $f_n$ of the frame.
The situation is different for "concrete" frames. For example, a Gabor frame for $L^2 (\mathbb{R})$ is a collection of the form $\{e^{2 \pi i b x} g(x-ak)\}_{k,n \in \mathbb{Z}}$, where $a, b \in \mathbb{R}^+$ and $g \in L^2 (\mathbb{R})$, that forms a frame for $L^2 (\mathbb{R})$. For such a frame, the frame operator becomes, by definition, $$ [S f](x) = \sum_{n \in \mathbb{Z}} \sum_{n \in \mathbb{Z}} \bigg(\int_{\mathbb{R}} f(x) e^{-2 \pi i b x} \overline{g(x-ak)} d\mu(x) \bigg) e^{2 \pi i b x} g(x-ak). $$ One can show, by assuming several conditions, that this frame operator can be re-written as $$[Sf](x) = \frac{1}{b} \sum_{n \in \mathbb{Z}} f(x - \frac{n}{b}) \sum_{k \in \mathbb{Z}} g(x-ak) \overline{g(x - ak - \frac{n}{b})}, $$ which is known as the Walnut representation in Gabor analysis.
An excellent book on frame theory is An Introduction to Frames and Riesz Bases by Ole Christensen. The first half of that book considers "abstract" frames in general Hilbert spaces; the second half of that book considers "concrete" frames in mainly the Hilbert space $L^2 (\mathbb{R})$.