Start with a given category $\mathsf{C}$ and fix two morphisms $\alpha: A \to C$ and $\beta: B \to C$. Consider the category $\mathsf{C}_{\alpha, \beta}$ as follows:
Does a morphism in this category correspond to:
$1.$ a morphism $\sigma: Z_1 \to Z_2$ such that $f_1=f_2\sigma$ and $g_1=g_2\sigma$?
$2.$ a morphism $\sigma: Z_1 \to Z_2$ such that $\alpha f_1=\alpha f_2\sigma$ and $\beta g_1=\beta g_2 \sigma$?
$3.$ a morphism $\sigma: Z_1 \to Z_2$ such that $\alpha f_1=\beta g_2\sigma$ and $\beta g_1=\alpha f_2 \sigma$?
It seems that if (1.) is true, then the others are also true.


In order for the diagram to be commutative, all of its sub-diagrams must commute. This means, in particular, that the equations in condition (1) must hold. As you suggest, (2) and (3) follow from (1).
So a morphism $\sigma : (f_1,g_1) \to (f_2,g_2)$ in $\mathsf{C}_{\alpha,\beta}$ is a morphism $\sigma : Z_1 \to Z_2$ in $\mathsf{C}$ such that $f_2 \circ \sigma = f_1$ and $g_2 \circ \sigma = g_1$.