I'm starting to learn category theory, but there's one thing I don't get: all morphisms seem to be homomorphisms; the definition seems to be the same. What's the difference between these two? Can you give me an example of a non-homomorphic morphism?
Thank you for your patience,
First, keep in mind that the term "homomorphism" predates both the term "morphism" and the creation of category theory.
"Homomorphism," roughly speaking, refers to a map between sets equipped with some kind of structure that preserves that structure. The collection of all such structured sets and homomorphisms between them thus forms a category $C$, but this category is itself equipped with some extra structure, namely a faithful functor $C \to \text{Set}$, making it a concrete category.
"Morphism," on the other hand, refers to an arrow in an arbitrary category. In particular, an arbitrary category need not be concretized (and in fact some categories cannot be concretized!). Its objects need not be interpreted as sets and its morphisms need not be interpreted as functions: there are many other ways of writing down categories than thinking about structured sets.
Here is an example of a "category where the morphisms are not homomorphisms," but you really shouldn't think of it that way: consider the category whose objects are groups and whose morphisms are all functions (not necessarily preserving the group operations). (The reason I say you shouldn't think of it that way is that, to a category theorist, objects are just placeholders describing how morphisms can compose: all of the important information is in the morphisms, so I have no right to call the objects in this category groups if I can't detect their group structure using morphisms.)
Concretizations of categories are both analogous to and generalize group actions. One of the more important habits of thought you can pick up while learning category theory is to think about categories abstractly without choosing a concretization, in the same way that you think about groups abstractly without choosing a group action.