Let $f(x,y)=\begin{cases}\dfrac{\mathrm{e}^{xy}-1}{x+y} & x\not=-y, \\ 0 & x=-y \end{cases}$ be a two variable function on $\mathbb{R}^2$.
How can I give a proof (Only by definition $\varepsilon , \delta$) for $\displaystyle\lim_{(x,y)\to(0,0)}f(x,y)=0$?
The limit doesn't exist. Consider the sequence $$(x_n,y_n):=\left(-{1\over n},\ {1\over n}+{1\over n^3}\right)\qquad(n\geq1)\ .$$ As $$e^{xy}-1= x y\ g(x,y),\qquad \lim_{(x,y)\to(0,0)} g(x,y)=1\ ,$$ it follows that $$\lim_{n\to \infty}{e^{x_n y_n}-1\over x_n+y_n}=\lim_{n\to \infty} n^3\left(-{1\over n^2}+{1\over n^4}\right)=-\infty\ .$$ It's easy to produce another sequence $(x_n,y_n)$ where this limit is, e.g., $0$.