In spirit, topology and graph theory seems fairly similar - you have points/vertices, and a notion of "how they are connected", loosely. However, it's not obvious how these fields relate, despite topology seeming like it might be the natural generalisation of graph theory to "not-necessarily discrete graphs"; after all, it seems common for Euler's early results about graphs to be described as "the beginning of topology".
This question was inspired by seeing phrases like "the ordering relation on the real numbers induces a topology", which makes sense, but then realising that trying to do the same with the integers results in the discrete topology, which is effectively structureless with regards to the original ordering. However, you could easily represent the ordering structure using a graph (up to the direction considered positive). This seemed incongruous to me, and worth asking a question.
If there a way to subsume graphs into topology, or vice versa, or a common generalisation which subsumes them both? Please be easy on me, for I am a humble physics student.
Yes it does, it's called algebraic topology. For example homology tells you if a manifold is orientable. If the top dimensional integral homology group Hn is zero than it admits no orientation, if Hn is isomorphic to integers that it is orientable. To compute homology you can triangulate your space, meaning make a space which is made out of lines, vertices and triangles and is homeomorphic to your original space. Than you can easily compute all homology groups which will tell you a lot of information of how the space is connected and how many k dimensional holes it has.