In most cases, I can intuitively understand when selection order is important in probabilistic inference. However, I've come across a few cases recently where I've come unstuck. Here's an example,
Alice has 2 kids and one of them is a girl. What is the probability that the other child is also a girl? You can assume that there is an equal number of males and females in the world.
The answer I am given is as follows,
The outcomes for two kids can be {BB, BG, GB, GG} Since it is mentioned that one of them is a girl, we can remove the BB option from the sample space. Therefore the sample space has 3 options while only one fits the second condition. Therefore the probability the second child will be a girl too is 1/3.
So if the answer is correct the order of selection matters, because both BG and GB appear as possible outcomes above. On the other hand, the way I tried to answer the question was to note that we are already given that Alice has 2 kids and one of them is a girl. My logic goes that we then have only two possibilities to choose from for the 2nd child G or B, which would lead me to answer 1/2.
If the question would have been, e.g. Alice wants to have two kids what is the probability that she will have a G and B. Then in my mind order would matter {BB, BG, GB, GG} but not in the above.
Can someone explain to me if/why I am wrong? and in any case, I'm interested to hear your general tips for establishing whether order matters in these types of questions.
Merging BG and GB into a single case (i.e. ignoring order) doesn't change any probabilities. It's still twice as likely to get one boy and one girl compared to getting two girls.
So yes, you can think unordered, but then you lose the uniform probability distribution.
In fact, you often go the other way (from a context where order doesn't matter to pretending it does matter) exactly in order to get uniform probability. For instance, if you flip two identical coins, there is no "first" coin or "second" coin in any objective sense, but in order to make calculations we usually pretend there is a difference (one is blue and the other red, or one is thrown before the other, etc). That way it makes sense to talk about HT and TH, and all four outcomes are equally likely, even though there are really only three outcomes in the original setting.