I have found the topologies on the set $\{a, b\}$:
$\{\emptyset, \{a, b\}\}$,
$\{\emptyset, \{a\}, \{a, b\}\}$,
$\{\emptyset, \{b\}, \{a, b\}\}$
and $\{\emptyset, \{a\}, \{b\}, \{a, b\}\}$,
and now want to determine which of these is Hausdorff/separated.
I have the definition that in order of for this each distinct point of the space must have a disjoint neighbourhood.
My thinking is that the only separated space in the list is $\{\emptyset, \{a, b\}\}$, because it is the only one that has no two elements with both $a$ and $b$?
Actually, that one is not separated: there are no neighborhoods of $a$ and $b$ with empty intersection. And the same thing occurs with $\bigl\{\emptyset,\{a\},\{a,b\}\bigr\}$ and with $\bigl\{\emptyset,\{b\},\{a,b\}\bigr\}$.
On the other hand, in the case of $\bigl\{\emptyset,\{a\},\{b\},\{a,b\}\bigr\}$ you do get a Hausdorff space: $\{a\}$ is a neighborhood of $a$, $\{b\}$ is a neighborhood of $b$, and $\{a\}\cap\{b\}=\emptyset$.