I'm reading Frankel's The Geometry of Physics, a pretty cool book about differential geometry (at least from what I understand from the table of contents). In the first chapter, we are introduced to the notion of a tangent vector to a manifold:
A tangent vector, or contravariant vector, or simply a vector at $p_0 \in M^n$ [where $M^n$ is an n-dimensional "nice" enough manifold], call it $\mathbf{X}$, assigns to each coordinate patch $(U, x)$ [where $U \subset M^n$ and $x=(x^1,\dots,x^n)$ are the coordinates) holding $p_0$ an $n$-tuple of real numbers
$$(X^i_U) = (X^1_U,\dots,X^n_U)$$
such that if $p_0 \in U \cap V$, then
$$X^i_V = \sum_j \left(\frac{\partial x^i_V}{\partial x^j_U} \right)_{p_0}X^j_U $$
So far it's fine, this is a reasonable definition of a vector. Now if $f:M^n \to \mathbb{R}$, we define the derivative of $f$ with respect to $\mathbf{X}$:
$$\mathbf{X}_p(f) = D_{\mathbf{X}}(f) = \sum_j \left( \frac{\partial f}{\partial x^j} \right)_p X^j$$
Again, this makes sense. The author points out that there is a one-to-one correspondence between vector and differential operators of the form $\sum_j X^j\left( \frac{\partial}{\partial x^j}\right)_p$, which is not hard to picture. But then the book says that
we shall make no distinction between a vector and its associated differential operator.
What's the point of this? I understand that there's an association between vectors and operators, and that this might be useful. But why would we make no distinction? It seems that, while equivalent, the two have quite different interpretations.
There are three common ways to define tangent vectors $v\in T_{p}M$ on abstract manifolds:
As linear operators $C^{\infty}\left(M\right)\to\mathbb{R}$ satisfying the Leibniz law $v\left(fg\right)=f\left(p\right)vg+g\left(p\right)vf$
As equivalence classes of curves satisfying $\gamma\left(0\right)=p$, where two curves are equivalent if their first derivatives at zero agree in some chart
As assignments of tuples $v_{\varphi}=\left(v_{\varphi}^{1},\ldots,v_{\varphi}^{n}\right) : \operatorname{dom}( \varphi )\to \mathbb{R}^{n}$ to charts $\varphi$ such that $v_{\varphi},v_{\psi}$ are related by the Jacobian of $\varphi\circ\psi^{-1}$.
The reason the first is so popular is that it does not require one to talk about coordinate charts - all the dependence on coordinates is encapsulated in the dependence on the ring of smooth functions, $C^{\infty}\left(M\right)$. Once one has established the well-definedness of $C^{\infty}\left(M\right)$, this definition is truly coordinate-free and self-evidently well defined. This "cleanliness" is just an aesthetic advantage (one can of course check that the other definitions are perfectly consistent and that all three are equivalent), but it's a significant one - it's much easier to handle the concepts in DG if you keep the definitions as clean as possible, even if computations sometimes require one to fix a chart and get their hands dirty.
Now, as to interpretation - I argue that in general, the first and second definitions above are much more natural interpretations of what a vector actually is than the third. My reasoning stems from thinking about what you can actually do with a vector in an abstract smooth manifold.
In an affine space, the natural interpretation of a tangent vector is as a displacement - one can take a vector $v$ at a point $p$ and translate over to $p+v$; and this addition is literally addition of components in cartesian coordinates, so we have a very close relationship with the vector components.
This does not work on a general smooth manifold - you need at least a metric for this to have any analog at all (the exponential map), and even then it's not true that $``p+v"^i=p^{i}+v^{i}$. In the abstract case, vectors indicate an "infinitesimal" direction, which can be formalised as one of the first two definitions I gave above:
vectors are the directions in which you can differentiate functions; or
vectors are the directions in which curves can be travelling.
The picture you have in your head should look the same as before - vectors are still directions with magnitudes attached to points. The difference is that since there is no longer a literal formalisation of this concept (displacements in affine spaces), we have to choose a new formal definition of what a "direction" is; and I believe that while the component definition is the most familiar in terms of computation, it is not a good conceptual model.