Assuming I am correct,
For $a,b,c,d$ as positive odd integers and where $a,b,c,d$ are not multiples of $3$, Why is $(a⋅b - c⋅d)$, $(a⋅c-b⋅d)$, $(a⋅d-b⋅c)$ ALL either multiples of $3$ or ALL not multiples of $3$?
As a self learner I noticed that happening and I have no idea how to approach it. If either $a,b,c,d$ is a multiple of $3$, I can understand why they ALL are not multiples of $3$. However, $a,b,c,d$ can also be different prime numbers and the condition still works.
Example 1:
$13⋅23- 31⋅47 = -1158$ , $-1158 \bmod 3=0$ , $-1158 / 3 = -336$
$13⋅31- 23⋅47 = -678$ , $-678 \bmod 3=0$ , $-678 / 3 = -226$
$13⋅47- 23⋅31 = -102$ , $-102 \bmod 3=0$ , $-102 / 3 = -34$
Example 1:
$43⋅79 - 103 ⋅ 131 = -100968$ , $-10096 \bmod 3 ≠ 0$ , $-1158 / 3 = -3365.333...$
$43⋅103- 79⋅131 = -5920$ , $-5920 \bmod 3≠0$ , $-5920 / 3 = -1973.333...$
$43⋅131- 79⋅103 = -2504$ , $-2504 \bmod 3≠0$ , $-2504 / 3 = -834.666...$
*Edit, per one of the comments: The condition doesn't hold when: any $,,,$ such that exactly two are multiples of $3$
This is by far easiest to see by using modular arithmetic. It is not neccessary that $a,b,c,d$ are odd, but your claim does depend on none of them being multiples of $3$.
This assumption means that each of them is congruent to either $1$ or $-1$ modulo $3$.
This means that the product of two of them (still modulo 3) is $1$ if they are equal, but $-1$ if they are different.
Now if the four numbers are all equal modulo 3, then then the results of multiplying them pairwise will be $1$ no matter how you assign the four factors to two multiplications. Therefore their difference is $0$ modulo $3$ -- in other words the difference is a multiple of $3$.
If two of the factors are $1$ and the other two are $-1$, then again the two products will always be equal, though depending on how you distribute the inputs they might be either both $1$ or both $-1$. Again the difference is $0$ modulo $3$ for all the choices.
Finally, if one of the factors is different from the other three, then you always end up with one of the products being $1$ and the other being $-1$. Their difference is then $\pm 2$ modulo $3$ -- that is, not a multiple of $3$ in either case.
An alternative, less ad hoc but also more abstract way to see this is:
When $x$ and $y$ are both known to be $\pm 1$ modulo $3$, then so is $xy$, and $xy\equiv -1$ exactly when $x\equiv -1$ XOR $y\equiv -1$.
When $x$ and $y$ are both known to be $\pm 1$ modulo $3$, then $x-y\not\equiv 0$ exactly when $x\equiv -1$ XOR $y\equiv -1$.
The combination of these two facts tell us that $ab-cd\not\equiv 0$ iff $$ (a\equiv -1 \mathrel{\mathrm{XOR}} b \equiv -1) \mathrel{\mathrm{XOR}} (c\equiv -1 \mathrel{\mathrm{XOR}} d \equiv -1) $$ and because XOR is commutative and associative, it doesn't matter how you permute $a,b,c,d$.