Often relations are defined as follows:
The xxxxx relation is the smallest relation satisfying...
My question is why relations are defined as the smallest relations. I thought it may be so relation is uniquely defined but I have never see a proof that there is exactly one smallest relation. Does such proof exists? Are there any other reasons?
In the example you mentioned in the comments, the author is defining a relation something like this:
In this case, the use of "smallest" is just like the use of "if and only if" rather than "if". Let's say I define a relation $R$ by saying "if $a$ is the brother of $b$, then $aRb$". If it turned out that $\text{Charlemagne}\ R\ \text{Richard Nixon}$, would I have lied to you? No! I only said that if $a$ is the brother of $b$, then $aRb$, I didn't say only if.
In order to deal with this problem, I could either just use "only if" instead of "if", or I could say that $R$ is the smallest relation satisfying "If $a$ is the brother of $b$, then $aRb$". "Smallest" here means that $R$ is contained inside every other relation satisfying that property. It is possible to prove that such an $R$ exists, and that it's the same as the relation that would be defined by using "only if" rather than "if".