I find another formulation for Stirling numbers of the second kind:
Let $n\ge k\ge 1$. Denote by $$\mathbb N_<^n := \{ \alpha = (\alpha_1,\cdots,\alpha_n): 0\le \alpha_1\le\cdots\le\alpha_n, \alpha_n>0 \}$$ the set of nondecreasing $n$-multi-indices with a positive last element. Now I divide the (increasing) multi-index $(1,\cdots,n)$ into a summation of $k$ multi-indices $\{\alpha^j: j = 1,\cdots k\} \subset \mathbb N_<^n$, i.e., \begin{array}{c} \sum_{j=1}^k \alpha^j_i = i, \quad i = 1,\cdots,n, \\ 0\le \alpha^j_1\le\cdots\le\alpha^j_n, \quad \alpha^j_n>0, \quad j = 1,\cdots k. \end{array} I find that the number of ways of such partitions is the Stirling number of the second kind $\left\{ n\atop k \right\}$.
I can check it by hand. For example, when $n=4$ and $k=2$, we have the following $7$ ways of partitions: \begin{array}{cccc} \hline 0 & 0 & 0 & 1 \\ 1 & 2 & 3 & 3 \\ \hline 0 & 0 & 1 & 1 \\ 1 & 2 & 2 & 3 \\ \hline 0 & 1 & 1 & 1 \\ 1 & 1 & 2 & 3 \\ \hline 1 & 1 & 1 & 1 \\ 0 & 1 & 2 & 3 \\ \hline 0 & 0 & 1 & 2 \\ 1 & 2 & 2 & 2 \\ \hline 0 & 1 & 1 & 2 \\ 1 & 1 & 2 & 2 \\ \hline 0 & 1 & 2 & 2 \\ 1 & 1 & 1 & 2 \\ \hline \end{array} We know from this table that $\left\{ 4\atop 2 \right\} = 7$.
But I don't know how to prove this rigorously. Is it already well-known in combinatorics? Any hints or references will be appreciated.
I get an answer by myself.
Basically, we can find a one-to-one correspondence between partitions of the multi-index $(1,\cdots,n)$ into $k$ multi-indices in $\mathbb N_<^n$ and partitions of the set $\{1,\cdots,n\}$ into $k$ non-empty subsets.
Before proving the claim, let us check an example. Consider the last partition of $(1,2,3,4)$ in the above question, that is, $\{(0,1,2,2), (1,1,1,2)\}$. There are two nonzero integers in $(0,1,2,2)$, which are $1$ and $2$. The location where $1$ first appear is $2$ and that for $2$ is $3$. Thus the location set of $(0,1,2,2)$ is $\{2,3\}$. Similarly, the location set of $(1,1,1,2)$ is $\{1,4\}$. The two location sets $\{2,3\}$ and $\{1,4\}$ exactly form a partition of $\{1,2,3,4\}$.
Now we prove the claim:
PS: I'm new to combinatorics. I think this formulation for Stirling numbers of the second kind may be classical in some textbooks of combinatorics. If anyone knows references about it, please don't hesitate to put them in the comments. Thanks in advance.