I was looking at this question, but it never received an answer. Is it possible to calculate $\lambda$ (the expected number) from a probability?
I know that $\lambda$ is easily calculated if, say, we know that the P(X=0 crashes per month) = .05. Then $\lambda$ is $-\ln(.05)$ crashes per month.
But what if we are given that P(X=5 crashes per month)=.05. How would I find the expected number of crashes a month in that case? (if it is even possible)

I see in the comments you have reduced it to solving $$\lambda^5 e^{-\lambda} = 6$$ which has "exact" solutions in terms of the Lambert W-function, but as a practical matter you should graph it and find the solution using a computer or calculator. (You also asked about approximation methods. Though I think this is a bit of a waste of time for the question at hand... Newton's method?)
Hey, but wait... if you graph it you'll see pretty clearly that there are two real positive solutions, one between $2$ and $3$ and one between $9$ and $10$. Which one is right? Well, they actually both have to be right. In the Poisson distribution, $\lambda$ is allowed to be any positive real number, and if you set $\lambda$ to either of those in you'll get $P(X=5) = .05.$
What's going on? If you start with lambda really small, $P(X=5)$ will be tiny, and as you increase it, it will increase. Eventually it will pass $.05$. Then it will keep increasing until $\lambda=5$ and it is maximally probable that $X=5.$ Then as you increase $\lambda$ further, $X$ will start to prefer to be bigger than $5$ and the probability it is $5$ will decrease, crossing $.05$ again on the way down.
So it makes sense that there are two solutions. Also, if you picked a number much larger than $.05,$ you would risk picking it too high so that it has no solutions. In other words, even when $\lambda = 5,$ there is still not that much probability that $X=5.$