Calculate directly (not via partial differentiation) the total derivative of the function $f(x_1,x_2)=x_1^2-10x_2.$ You may wish to use the fact that $\sqrt{x^2+y^2}\geq\frac{x+y}{2}.$ $$$$ For the solution I used the following formula: $f(x+y)=f(x)+df_x(y)+r(y), \text{where $\displaystyle\lim_{y\to0}\frac{\ r(y)}{||y||}=0$$$}$
So, $f(x+y)=(x_1+y_1)^2-10(x_2+y_2)\\ \hspace{1.6cm}=x_1^2+2x_1y_1+y_1^2-10x_2-10y_2 \\ \hspace{1.6cm}=f(x_1,x_2)+2x_1y_1+f(y_1,y_2)\\ \hspace{1.6cm}\text{here $r(y)=f(y_1,y_2)$, and I know that total derivative $(dfx(y))=2x_1y_1$ but I}\\ \text{don't know how to show that}\displaystyle\lim_{y\to0}\frac{\ r(y)}{||y||}=\displaystyle\lim_{y\to0}\frac{f(y_1, y_2)}{||y||}=0.\\ \text{Any suggestion would be appreciated!}$
The derivative is linear in the difference between the vectors $(x_1,y_1),(x_2,y_2)$, so it is probably better to write $$f(x+\Delta x,y+\Delta y)-f(x,y)=(x+\Delta x)^2-10(y+\Delta y)-x^2+10y$$ and what you want to do with this expression is to identify "what is linear in $\Delta x,\Delta y$ and prove that the rest is $o(\|(\Delta x,\Delta y)\|)$. So you expand and get $$f(x+\Delta x,y+\Delta y)-f(x,y)=\Delta x^2+(2x,-10)\cdot(\Delta x,\Delta y)$$
(Here $v\cdot u$ denotes the dot product ). Since $\frac{\Delta x^2}{\|(\Delta x,\Delta y)\|}\to 0$ as $(\Delta x,\Delta y)\to (0,0)$, we see that the linear map defined by dot-product with the vector $(2x,-10)$ is the total derivative of $f$ at the point $(x,y)$, as you would expect.