Is there some precise sense in which the "alternation" functor $A$ that maps a multilinear function $f\colon M^d\to N$ to the alternating multilinear function $A(f)\colon M^d\to N$ defined by $$ A(f)(x_1,\dotsc,x_d) = \sum_{\sigma\in S_n}\operatorname{sign}(\sigma) f(x_{\sigma(1)},\dotsc,x_{\sigma(d)}) $$ is the canonical or most natural one? Here $M$ and $N$ are vector spaces or modules over a commutative ring $R$.
In particular, is there a mathematical reason, when one needs to "alternate" a multilinear function, to choose this $A$ over $-A$?
Note. I did not use the factor $\frac{1}{d!}$ because in a ring or a field $d!$ does not need to have an inverse.
The same question can be asked i suppose about the "symmetrization" functor $S$ defined by $$ S(f)(x_1,\dotsc,x_d) = \sum_{\sigma\in S_n} f(x_{\sigma(1)},\dotsc,x_{\sigma(d)}). $$
A related or maybe equivalent question: in which sense the maps $$ M^{\otimes d}\to M^{\otimes d},\quad x_1\otimes\dotsb\otimes x_d\mapsto \sum_{\sigma\in S_n}\operatorname{sign}(\sigma) x_{\sigma(1)}\otimes\dotsb\otimes x_{\sigma(d)} $$ and $$ M^{\otimes d}\to M^{\otimes d},\quad x_1\otimes\dotsb\otimes x_d\mapsto \sum_{\sigma\in S_n} x_{\sigma(1)}\otimes\dotsb\otimes x_{\sigma(d)} $$ are "canonical"?
I think "canonical" should mean "determined uniquely up to isomorphism by some universal property."
Sometimes signs in standard definitions are chosen somewhat or completely randomly.
Example. In the axiomatic definition of the exterior derivative of a differential form, there is absolutely no reason to require $$ \mathrm{d}(α ∧ β) = \mathrm{d}α ∧ β + (−1)^p (α ∧ \mathrm{d}β), $$ where $α$ is a $p$-form. It could be as well required instead that $$ \mathrm{d}(α ∧ β) = (−1)^q (\mathrm{d}α ∧ β) + α ∧ \mathrm{d}β, $$ where $β$ is a $q$-form. (It seems to me that the most general form of a differential algebra product rule should be something like this: $d(ab) = d(a)\mu(b) + \lambda(a)d(b)$, where $\lambda$ and $\mu$ are two fixed endomorphisms.)
Note about terminology. I must admit that the terms like "symmetrization" (in the title, etc.) are probably misleading and badly chosen, because it is usually assumed that symmetrizing symmetric things should not change them.
I claim that the "most natural" option involves those factors of $\frac{1}{d!}$ that you omitted. The reason is the following. $M^{\otimes d}$ is naturally equipped with a representation of the symmetric group $S_d$. At least if we're working over a field, it's natural to try to isolate the isotypic component of the trivial resp. the sign representation (the symmetric resp. the antisymmetric tensors), and if we're working in characteristic zero, it's natural to do this using the canonical idempotents in the group algebra $\mathbb{Q}[S_d]$ that do this, namely
$$\frac{1}{d!} \sum_{\pi \in S_d} \pi$$
and
$$\frac{1}{d!} \sum_{\pi \in S_d} \text{sgn}(\pi) \pi$$
respectively. The point of those divisions by $d!$ is so that the resulting operations are idempotents, and in particular so that they fix the subspace of symmetric resp. antisymmetric tensors. More generally, if a finite group $G$ acts on a vector space $W$ and $V$ is an irreducible representation of $G$, then the idempotent $\frac{1}{|G|} \sum_{g \in G} \overline{\chi_V}(g) g$ is the canonical idempotent that always projects onto the $V$-isotypic component, where $\chi_V$ is the character of $V$.
The fact that it's natural to divide by $d!$ in this argument suggests that weird things happen when you can't, and indeed they do. If you're working in characteristic $p$ where $p \le d$ then you enter the realm of modular representation theory, where Maschke's theorem fails in general. In particular, there's no reason to expect the symmetric tensors to be a direct summand of $M^{\otimes d}$ as an $S_d$-representation in general, so there is no reason to expect that there exists an idempotent commuting with the action of $S_d$ that projects onto it. If you try to symmetrize without dividing by $d!$ then your symmetrization map multiplies all symmetric tensors by $d!$, which annihilates them, and that strikes me as very funny behavior for a map called symmetrization!