I want to prove
$$ a+b \geq 2 \sqrt{ab}, \quad \text{for} \quad a, b>0 \tag 1 $$
First question:
Isn't this wrong? Shouldn't it be $$ a+b \geq 2 \sqrt{ab}, \quad \text{for} \quad a, b\geq0 \tag 2 $$
Or $$ a+b > 2 \sqrt{ab}, \quad \text{for} \quad a, b>0 \tag 3 $$
And the proof:
I start backwards. \begin{align} a+b-2&\sqrt{ab}\geq 0 \tag 4 \\ (\sqrt a)^2+(\sqrt b)^2-2&\sqrt{ab}\geq 0 \tag 5 \\ (\sqrt a)^2+(\sqrt b)^2-2&\sqrt{a}\cdot \sqrt{b}\geq 0 \tag 6 \end{align} Let $x= \sqrt a$ and $y=\sqrt b$, so we see that \begin{align} x^2+y^2-2xy&\geq 0 \tag 7\\ (x-y)^2\geq 0 \tag 8 \end{align} So finally we have $$ (\sqrt a- \sqrt b)^2 \geq 0 \tag 9 $$
If $a=b=0$ we have $0\geq 0$ which is true for $0=0$ ($0>0$ is always false).
For $a>0$ and $b>0$ the square $(\sqrt a- \sqrt b)^2$ is always strictly positive.
And also, $a<0$ and $b<0$ is not valid because $\sqrt a$ and $\sqrt b$ are only defined for $a\geq 0$ and $b\geq 0$.
No, it's not wrong. It is simply not as strong as it could be. Your (2) is also right, but that doesn't make (1) wrong.
However, your (3) is wrong: if $a=b$, then $a+b=2\sqrt{ab}$.