When proving certain results I need to use commutative diagrams, some of which quite complicated. My question is:
Do we need to check every small square all the time to make sure that they are all commutative?
As an example, if we have the following diagram. If in my proof I wrote "Consider the following commutative diagram":

Before discussing anything else, I need to prove that it is indeed commutative. There are $11$ small squares to verify. When reading papers/books, I seldom see the author verifies every small square is commutative.
Is there any alternative other than checking all small squares, if I want to claim that a complicated diagram is commutative?
If you are writing the proof, then you should at least explain how to check each one (maybe give a single example). If all the remaining are similar, then you can just say they are similar.
The really important thing is that you personally verified each fact. If you did not do it personally, how can you assert that you know it is commutative? If you can prove to yourself that it is true without checking each individual one, then you should be able to write the proof without checking each individual one.