My question is how far would I have to be away from a sphere to see it in its totally. Using a view of vision of 120 degrees. radius of 3.959 miles
I am trying to work out how close an astronaut would have to be to the Moon and/or the Earth to be able to see it.

You will never be far enough to see a sphere in its entirety, unless you use mirrors (or even fancier: large masses to create a gravitational lensing effect).
As an analogy: consider the Sun, which is 'pretty far' away from the Earth (when compared to the Earth's diameter). Still, at any given time, it's daytime on only half of the Earth, so the Sun 'sees' only half of Earth.