I have some conceptual doubts on the notion of a lie group, or perhaps on the notion of topological group. A lie group is manifold equipped with a continuous group structure of multiplication and inverse mapping. My understanding is that the points of a manifold posses a intrinsic existence independent of the coordinate chart used, and so this should also be true of the group structure. Now consider the unit circle. It's generally said the the unit circle is a lie group on the basis that it is the group of all complex numbers of absolute value 1, and such is a lie group under usual complex multiplication.
Now it seems to me that there should be conceptual distinction between the "unit circle" as a purely geometric or topological object and the group of unit complex numbers, and that the unit circle as such could not be considered a group.
My reasoning is the following. The relation between the unit complex and the unit circle is realized via the parameter $\theta$ in the complex exponential. But $\theta$ is a coordinate on the unit circle. So to define the multiplication structure on the circle via the multiplication of the corresponding complex numbers appears as structure that depends on coordinates.
To define the group structure first we must chose invertible maps $f(\theta) \longrightarrow \ M $ (where $M$ is the circle manifold), and $h(\theta) \longrightarrow e^{i\theta} $. And then define multiplication in the circle by
$$ p_1*p_2 = f\bigg(h^{-1}\big(e^{if^{-1}(p_1)}e^{if^{-1}(p_2)}\big)\bigg) \ \ ; p_1,p_2 \in M $$
Which of course is the point corresponding to the sum of the $\theta$'s. Now this definition seems to the depend on the particular coordinate chart $f$. By choosing differently I could change the point in $M$ associated with $\theta = 0$ for example, thereby changing the identity element. I began reading about Lie groups thinking that there are groups that are fortuitously continuous and fortuitously coordinalizable, but it is now seeming that the coordinates are the group.
I'm therefore being forced to conclude that the group structure is not intrinsic to the manifold. The operations $G \times G \longrightarrow G$ are not defined over the manifold points but over coordinate space. I do not know how to multiply elements without first assigning coordinates. The same type of consideration seems to apply to the torus and the plane, that are so symmetric that is impossible to distinguish for example a identity element in a intrinsic manner. This consideration should not be a problem if the manifolds in question are just coordinate spaces themselves, n-uples of number such as $\mathbb{R}^n$ or embedded surfaces on it. But if we are to think of manifolds abstractly it seems to be relevant. In the case of the unit circle and the plane (considered simply as geometric objects) it does not seem possible unless we arbitrarily fix some point to be the identity.
So my question is, can the group structure be defined intrinsically (independent of coordinates) such as other properties of manifolds, like it's tangent space structure for example, or some other topological properties? If so can someone explain how or point me towards some reference? If it is not possible is this fact at all relevant or is the conceptual difference that is bugging me superfluous?
I'm not a mathematician and this is my first attempt at seriously studying group theory so apologies if I committed some simple misunderstanding.
Thanks in advance.
Maps between manifolds can be considered abstractly, but if you want to specify a map you usually give it in coordinates. You say you do not know how to define multiplication without first calculating in coordinates, but this is the case for most maps of manifolds. This does not preclude them from being coordinate-independent.