Let $R \subseteq X \times X$ be a binary relation for $X = \{a, b, c, d\}$. $R = \{(a, a), (b, c), (c, d), (b, d)\}$. Is the relation an equivalence relation? I don't know if I am proving it correctly by using a formal proof?
Proof:
a)$R \subseteq X \times X$, thus reflexive holds.
b)$R \subseteq X \times X$ then $X \times X \subseteq R$, thus symmetric holds.
c)I don't know how to formally prove it correctly.
Is this correct? Thanks.
No, what you have is not correct.
In this case, $R$ is not reflexive or symmetric, but it is transitive.
It might help to think of $R$ as defining a binary operator $\sim$: for each pair of elements $x, y \in X$, $x \sim y$ if and only if $(x, y) \in R$.