$$E[XY] = \sum_{x\epsilon X }^{} \sum_{y\epsilon Y}^{} xy \cdot P(xy)$$
so if we let $Y=X$ we get
$$E[X^2] = \sum_{x \in X }^{} \sum_{y \in X}^{} xy *P(xy)$$
but $$E[X^2] = \sum_{x \in X}^{}x^2P(x)$$,
if I try these to equations with a simple example like X = {1, 2, 3} each with probability 1/3, I get different answers.
Can someone please let me know where I went wrong in my logic ?
Also, let's say X has 5 elements and Y has 5 elements, would XY have 25 elements? If so, why doesn't XX have 25 elements, and is only understood to mean each value of an element is simply squared?
You replace $x\cdot y$ by $x\cdot x=x^2$ only. $$E[X^2] = \sum_{x\epsilon X }^{} \sum_{y\epsilon Y}^{} x^2 \cdot P(x,y)$$
$$= \sum_{x\epsilon X }^{} x^2 \cdot \sum_{y\epsilon Y}^{} P(x,y)= \sum_{x\epsilon X }^{} x^2 \cdot P(x), $$
where $P(x)$ are the corresponding probabilities of $X$.