I am seeking merely (to correct my) intuition, not formal proofs. Andrew Chinery answered
A clearer example paraphrased from Norman Fenton's website: if Alice (A) and Bob (B) both flip the same coin, but that coin might be biased, we cannot say $p(A=H|B=H) = p(A=H)$ (i.e. that they are independent) because if we see Bob flips heads, it is more likely to be biased towards heads, and hence the left probability should be higher.
However if we denote Z as the event "the coin is biased towards heads", then $p(A=H|B=H,Z)=p(A=H|Z)$. [Now] we can remove Bob from the equation because we know the coin is biased. Given the fact that the coin is biased, the two flips are conditionally independent.
I am assuming that you can't physically mend or revamp the coin to make it unbiased, correct? Then given the coin's bias, how can any two flips be CONDITIONALLY independent? The coin's bias (towards heads) will necessarily "bias" any flip in favor of heads. You can't remove or extirpate this coin's bias, if you keep using this biased coin!
I can distinguish this bewildering overhead example of a biased coin, from Andrew Chinery's other more intuitive examples of Conditional Independence. If you condition on age, then you can contemplate "each age group separately". In Norman's Example 3 — which Andrew Chinery mooted in his answer — you can uncover other reasons for Martin 's lateness or Norman's lateness, e.g. by asking them or investigating their travel history.
Its much simpler to think of this through Causality.
In the example that you linked to, Age affects both Foot Size and Literary Score. In this coin example, the Bias of the coin affects Toss $A$ and Toss $B$.
The rule here is that after you've drawn out the graph, two events are conditionally independent if you can't traverse from one node to the other without going through a "blocked" node, where a "blocked" node is an event that has has already happened.
Understanding Bayesian Networks will help: http://www.cse.unsw.edu.au/~cs9417ml/Bayes/Pages/Bayesian_Networks_Definition.html