In the inclusion-exclusion set example:
$|A\cup B\cup C|=|A|+|B|+|C|-|A\cap B|-|A\cap C|-|B\cap C|+|A\cap B\cap C|$
we subtract $|A\cap B\cap C|$ three times because it is included in $|A\cap B|$,$|A\cap C|$ and $|B\cap C|$, but we are adding it back only once as $+|A\cap B\cap C|$. Why? Common sense says: we should add it back twice if we subtracted it three times.
Please explain using simple words :)
First we added $|A\cap B\cap C|$ three times because $A\cap B\cap C$ is a subset of $A$, $B$ and $C$.
Then we subtracted it again three times because $A\cap B\cap C$ is a subset of $A\cup B$, $A\cup C$ and $B\cup C$.
Then we add it once so that it present exactly one time, as it should.