How many ways are there to distribute $19$ distinct objects into $3$ distinct boxes such that no two boxes contain same number of element,i.e, each boxes have distinct number of elements. No empty boxes allowed.
My work: I chose using principle of inclusion exclusion principle and generating functions , so
All - at least two boxes have same number of element
All : Stirling number of second kind $3! \times S(19,3)=3! \times193448101$ or $\bigg[\frac{x^{19}}{19!}\bigg](e^x-1)^3$ by generating functions.
Now, lets calculate two boxes have same number of element. Firstly, select which ones they are by $\binom{3}{2}$.Because of these two boxes have same number of elements, they can take $(1,1),(2,2),(3,3),..,$. So, if we select the elements for these two boxes at the same time, and after the selection we disperse selected elements between them equally. So, our E.G.F is equal to $$\binom{2}{1}\frac{x^2}{2!}+\binom{4}{2}\frac{x^4}{4!}+\binom{6}{3}\frac{x^6}{6!}+...+ =\sum_{n \geq1}\frac{x^{2n}}{(n!)^2}$$ So $$\binom{3}{2}\bigg[\frac{x^{19}}{19!}\bigg]\bigg(\sum_{n \geq1}\frac{x^{2n}}{(n!)^2}\bigg)e^x$$ where $e^x$ is for the rest box.
Now, lets calculate three boxes have same number of elements using the same way.
$$\binom{3}{3}\bigg[\frac{x^{19}}{19!}\bigg]\bigg(\sum_{n \geq1}\frac{x^{3n}}{(n!)^3}\bigg)$$
Then, the answer is $$\bigg[\frac{x^{19}}{19!}\bigg]\bigg[(e^x-1)^3-\binom{3}{2}\bigg(\sum_{n \geq1}\frac{x^{2n}}{(n!)^2}\bigg)e^x+\binom{3}{3}\bigg(\sum_{n \geq1}\frac{x^{3n}}{(n!)^3}\bigg)\bigg]$$
First of all I want you to check my method whether it is correct or not. Secondly,I want to simplify my generating functions into more closed form. I assume that $\bigg(\sum_{n \geq1}\frac{x^{3n}}{(n!)^3}\bigg)$ or $\bigg(\sum_{n \geq1}\frac{x^{2n}}{(n!)^2}\bigg)$ can be represented more closed form such as trigonometric , logarithmic or any others forms.
Note: Any other easier methods are accepted, please make contribution to find more practical methods.
$\color{red}{NOTE 2}$: It would be nice to see generalized solution for n distinct balls into r distinct bins such that no bins contain same number of elemnt
You are free to place 18 balls anywhere you like, and almost free to place the last ball except when it makes a count match. And except when it leaves an empty box. So the answer is between $3^{18}$ and $3^{19}$.
The exact answer is $$\sum_{a + b + c = 19 \\ a,b,c\text{ distinct} \\ a,b,c \text{ positive}} {19 \choose a} {19 - a \choose b} $$
which is $773,698,050 \approx 3^{18} \times 1.997$. You could try lifting the $\ne$ branch out of the sums to make a finite set of combination sums, but not sure it is worth the effort.