How to prove $\mathbb Z^2 \ast \mathbb Z$ is quasi isometric to $\mathbb Z^2 \ast \mathbb Z^2$? Here $\ast$ is the free product of groups.
I am thinking of proving they are commensurable. In other words, proving they share a finite index subgroup. $\mathbb Z^2 \ast \mathbb Z$ is the fundamental group of $T \vee S^1$, and $\mathbb Z^2 \ast \mathbb Z^2$ is fundamental group of $T \vee T$ (here $\vee$ is wedge sum). So we can also turn the problem into finding compact cover of each space such that the two covers have the same fundamental group. My problem right now is the only compact cover of a torus is torus itself, so I'm not sure how to find such a compact cover?
We can show that these groups are quasi-isometric by showing that these are both q.i. to $\mathbb{Z}^2*\mathbb{Z}^2*\mathbb{Z}$.
Consider, as you mention in the question, the space $T\vee S^1$, whose fundamental group is $\mathbb{Z}^2 * \mathbb{Z}$. Using the standard double cover of this space, $T\vee T\vee S^1$, we see that $\mathbb{Z}^2 * \mathbb{Z}$ is quasi-isometric to $\mathbb{Z}^2*\mathbb{Z}^2*\mathbb{Z}$.
Express $\mathbb{Z}^2 * \mathbb{Z}^2$ as $\langle a,b,c,d~|~aba^{-1}b^{-1},cdc^{-1}d^{-1}\rangle$. Then $\mathbb{Z}^2 * \mathbb{Z}^2 * \mathbb{Z}$ is realized as the subgroup $\langle a^2,b,c^2,d,ac^{-1}\rangle$. (The map is the obvious one: $a^2$ and $b$ generate the first $\mathbb{Z}^2$, and so on.) Then you can show this has index 2 by showing that $1$ and $a^{-1}$ are the only left cosets.