For context, I have to solve this equation for $u$:
$\mathbf{u}\cdot\mathbf{u}=1$
$\mathbf{u}\cdot\begin{pmatrix}2\\1\\-2\end{pmatrix}=0$
$\mathbf{u}\cdot\begin{pmatrix}3\\-2\\-1\end{pmatrix}=\pm 3$
They were derived from the following question (I am aware of the true method of solving this):
However, I would like know if there is a practical method to prove this using the equations I have derived, in the more general case where I have:
$\mathbf{u}\cdot\mathbf{u}=a$
$\mathbf{u}\cdot\mathbf{v}=b$
$\mathbf{u}\cdot\mathbf{w}=c$
I would generate the matrix equation:
$\begin{pmatrix}u_1&u_2&u_3\\v_1&v_2&v_3\\w_1&w_2&w_3\end{pmatrix}\begin{pmatrix}u_1\\u_2\\u_3\end{pmatrix}=\begin{pmatrix}a\\b\\c\end{pmatrix}$
However I don't know how I would solve this.
My question is, how would I solve a matrix equation of this form?

Solve the two linear equations: the result can be put in the parametric form ${\bf u} = {\bf d} + t \bf e$. Then ${\bf u} \cdot {\bf u} = a$ becomes a quadratic in $t$.