Hint for approach #1: Use the fact in a finite field the non-zero squares form a cyclic subgroup of the multiplicative group, so the sum (well, half of it) is a segment of a geometric series such that...
Hint for approach #2: Let
$$
S=\sum_{\alpha\in K}\alpha^2=\sum_{\alpha\in K^*}\alpha^2.
$$
Because $p^8>3$ (this is enough) there exists an element $\beta\in K^*$ such that $\beta^2\neq1$. Show that
$$
\beta^2S=\sum_{\alpha\in K^*}(\beta\alpha)^2
$$
is actually equal to $S$, because it contains exactly the terms (but in a different order). Conclude that $S=0$.
Hint for approach #1: Use the fact in a finite field the non-zero squares form a cyclic subgroup of the multiplicative group, so the sum (well, half of it) is a segment of a geometric series such that...
Hint for approach #2: Let $$ S=\sum_{\alpha\in K}\alpha^2=\sum_{\alpha\in K^*}\alpha^2. $$ Because $p^8>3$ (this is enough) there exists an element $\beta\in K^*$ such that $\beta^2\neq1$. Show that $$ \beta^2S=\sum_{\alpha\in K^*}(\beta\alpha)^2 $$ is actually equal to $S$, because it contains exactly the terms (but in a different order). Conclude that $S=0$.