Maybe I am not well-versed with the actual definition of mean, but I have a doubt. On most resources, people say that arithmetic mean is the sum of $n$ observations divided by $n$. So my first question:
How does this formula work? Is there any derivation to it? If not, then while creating this definition, what was the creator thinking?
Okay, so using my intuition, I thought that it is the value that lies in the centre. And it worked for some cases, like the mean of $1$ , $2$ and $3$ is $2$ , which is the central value. But, lets imagine a number line from numbers $0$ to $9$. Now, I choose $3$ numbers, say $1$, $8$ and $9$. By the formula, I get the mean is equal to $6$. But, if mean really is a central value, shouldn't it be $5$(I know we call $5$ the median in this case)? But it seems like the mean is getting closer to $8$ and $9$, which means it is not central? So my final question?
Have I imagined mean incorrectly? What kind of central value really mean is?
The arithmetic mean formula is a definition of the term, so there is no derivation. The mean does not involve the range that the numbers might be over, like your $1$ to $9$ example. It only involves the actual numbers. You can define the term central value to take a set of numbers and return half the sum of the max and the min. That seems to be what you are doing with your example of $1,8,9$. That is a fine definition. Whether it is useful or not is yet to be seen. Given $1,8,9$, the mean of $6$ reflects the fact that two of the numbers are high. It is also the expected value-if you draw many times with replacement from $1,8,9$, the sum will be close to $6$ times the number of draws.
There are several statistics that can be used similarly. You are trying to take a distribution of numbers and report one number that "gives a feel" for the set. The arithmetic mean is one. Others are the median, the mode, the geometric mean, etc. You need to look at your purpose and choose the one that suits the need, then be careful to say which you have used.