My book says yes, but I'm not so convinced. There is:
$$ F:=\{a+b\sqrt2: a,b \in \mathbb Q\} $$
Sum and product are defined in $F$ as follow.
$$ (a+b\sqrt2)+(c+d\sqrt2) := a+c+(b+d)\sqrt2\\ (a+b\sqrt2)·(c+d\sqrt2) := ac+2bd+(ad+bc)\sqrt2 $$
The order relation to be considered is: $$ a+b\sqrt2\ \lesssim c+d\sqrt2 \iff c-a+(b-d)\sqrt2 \geq 0 $$
I'm not so convinced due to the multiplication property of ordered fields: $$ \forall a,b,c,\ c\gt0,\ a\lesssim b\implies a·c\lesssim b·c $$
So I should demonstrate that $$ (a+b\sqrt2)·(e+f\sqrt2)\lesssim (c+d\sqrt2)·(e+f\sqrt2);\\ \text{with } e+f\sqrt2 \gt0 $$ From the product definition this is equivalent to: $$ (ae + 2bf) + (af+be)\sqrt2 \lesssim (ce+2df) + (cf+de)\sqrt2 $$ From the relation operation definition: $$ (ce+2df)-(ae+2bf) + [(af+be)-(cf+de)]\sqrt2 \geq0\\ (c-a)(e-f\sqrt2)+(b-d)(e-f\sqrt2)\sqrt2 \geq0\\ (e-f\sqrt2)[c-a+(b-d)\sqrt2] \geq0 $$ I cannot say if $e-f\sqrt2 \geq0$, so I cannot say that $F$ is an ordered field. Am I right or is my book right?
Note that $\mathbb Q(\sqrt 2)$ is a subfield of $\mathbb R$, which is an ordered field, and "expected ordering" is the one derived from $\mathbb R$, and since it is compatible with the field operations on $\mathbb R$ we can say that $\mathbb Q(\sqrt 2)$ with the "expected order" is an ordered field.
However there is not a canonical ordering on $\mathbb Q(\sqrt 2)$ as an extension field of $\mathbb Q$ - the extension does not come with an order attached.
You can see that if you explore the order defined in the question effectively by $a+b\sqrt 2 \gt 0$ in $\mathbb Q(\sqrt 2)$ if and only if $a-b\sqrt 2 \gt 0$ in the usual order on $\mathbb R$. This just reverses the sign of $\sqrt 2$ wherever it occurs, and arises because $\mathbb Q(\sqrt 2)$ has a non-trivial automorphism which fixes $\mathbb Q$. All the computations are compatible with the order.
So there is a choice of possible orderings, and in this sense we can say that $\mathbb Q(\sqrt 2)$ can be ordered as a field in either way.
Note I would say that it is wrong to say that $\mathbb Q(\sqrt 2)$ "is" an ordered field.
Note also that in any ordered field the squares are positive, and this defines a unique order on $\mathbb R$, for example.