Question: Determine if the vector spaces $V=S_{3}$, the $3\times3$ symmetric matrices, and $W=U_{3}$, the $3\times3$ upper triangular matrices, are isomorphic. If they are, give an explicit isomorphism $T: V \rightarrow W$.
Attempt: I've determined that they are isomorphic, since they both have dimension $6$. I'm just not sure what to try as an isomorphism. Since the proof that all vector spaces of equal dimension are isomorphic uses coordinate vectors, I'd guess that those are the easiest ones to construct.
Could I map $S_{3}$ to $R^{3}$ using the coordinate vector map, then use the inverse of the coordinate vector map to bring $R^{3}$ to $U_{3}$?
$F : S_{3} \rightarrow R^{3}$ and $G : R^{3} \rightarrow U_{3}$, so if $T=F \circ G$, then $T : S_{3} \rightarrow U_{3}$. Seem legit?
A basis of the space of $W$ is $$ \{E_{i,j}\}_{i<j}\cup \{E_{i,i}\} $$
A basis of the space of $V$ is $$ \{E_{i,j} + E_{j,i}\}_{i<j}\cup \{E_{i,i}\} $$
Hence, let us define $T:V\to W$ such as $T$ is linear and $$\begin{cases} T(E_{i,j} + E_{j,i}) = E_{i,j} & (i<j)\\ T(E_{i,i}) = E_{i,i} \end{cases}$$
It maps a basis to a basis, hence it is an isomorphism: