If the summation just sum every term i was thinking that for instance 1+2+3+4 = 4+3+2+1
so why this $$\sum\limits_{i=1}^{n} (3i)\ = \sum\limits_{i=n}^{1} (3i) $$ is not true ?
And how i can invert the limits of the summation without changing the result ?
as others pointed out it is common (not convention) that indexes start from low values to high in that order, but when it is obvious it is undertood
$\sum\limits_{i=1}^{n} (3i)\ = \sum\limits_{i=n}^{1} (3i) $ is true, not sure why you think $3+6+9+\cdots +3n \neq 3n+\cdots+9+6+3$?
Just remember it is a shorthand, it is meaningless without defining what it means, you coud even define it with additional properties $\sum\limits_{k \text{ is prime} \le10000} k $ means $2+3+5+7+11+\cdots$ only primes less than 10000.