Let $(X,Y)$ be a Gaussian random vector, with $E[X]=E[Y]=0$, $var(X)=\sigma^2,\ var(Y)=\tau^2$, and $Cor(X,Y)=\rho$ (correlation coefficient). Find $E[X\mid X+Y]$ and $E[X\mid Y]$.
My attempt for $E[X\mid X+Y]$ is to first write $$E[X\mid X+Y]+E[Y\mid X+Y]=E[X+Y\mid X+Y]=X+Y$$ Since $(X,Y)$ is a Gaussian vector, $X+Y$ is also Gaussian. We can compute that $E[X+Y]=0$ and $var(X+Y)=\tau^2+\sigma^2+2\sigma\tau\rho$. Therefore, $X+Y\sim N(0,\tau^2+\sigma^2+2\sigma\tau\rho)$. But after this I don't know how to continue.
Another problem is that this does not seem to work for $E[X\mid Y]$.
Any help is appreciated.
Hints: Let $Z=cX+Y$ where $c$ is chosen such that $cov (X+Y,Z)=0$. (Compute $c$ by expanding the covariance). Then express $X$ as $t(X+Y)+sZ$. This means $X=(t+s)X+(t+sc)Y$ so we can take $s=\frac 1 {c-1}$ and $t= \frac 1 {1-c}$. Now note that $Z$ and $X+Y$ are independent (by joint normality) and $E(X|X+Y)=E(t(X+Y)+sZ|X+Y)=t(X+Y)+EZ=t(X+Y)$. [I will let you find out what you can do when $c=1$].
A similar argument can be used for $E(X|Y)$: Choose $d$ such that $X+dY$ is independent of $Y$. (You only have to make their covariance $0$). Then $E(X|Y)=E((X+dY)-dY|Y)==E(X+dY)-dY=-dY$.