Proposition 5.2 of the book, Introduction to probability models by Sheldon Ross says that if we have a Poisson process and each event in the process is of type-1 with probability $p$ and type-2 with probability $1-p$, then the number of type-1 and type-2 events are independent Poisson processes with rates $\lambda p$ and $\lambda (1-p)$ respectively. The independence is key here. It is then used as a powerful tool in example 5.17, where Ross addresses the coupon collectors problem. Quoting:
There are $m$ different types of coupons. Each time a person collects a coupon it is, independently of ones previously obtained, a type $j$ coupon with probability $p_j$, $\sum\limits_{j} p_j = 1$. Let $N$ denote the number of coupons one needs to collect in order to have a complete collection of at least one of each type. Find $E[N]$.
In the solution, he starts with the straightforward approach, denoting by $N_j$ the number of coupons that must be collected to obtain a type $j$ coupon. We can then express $N$ as:
$$N = \max_{1\leq j \leq m} N_j \tag{1}$$
He notes that the $N_j$ are geometric, but this method runs into a wall when we realize that the $N_j$'s aren't independent. And this makes sense. If there were only two types of coupons, they would be competing each time we collected a coupon. So, if we need very few coupons to collect one for the first kind, it tells us it's a common coupon and so, we now know that we'll have to wait a long time to see the second coupon (meaning $N_1$ and $N_2$ are negatively correlated).
Now, Ross considers the coupons arriving according to a Poisson process with rate $1$. By proposition 5.2, the counting processes defining the arrivals of each of the coupon types (say $j$) are independent Poisson process with rates $1 . p_j$. Now, define $X$ the time at which all coupons are collected and $X_j$ the time at which the first type $j$ coupon is collected. We get an equation very similar to (1):
$$X = \max_{1\leq j \leq m} X_j \tag{2}$$
Now, we don't run into the wall since by proposition 5.2, the $X_j$'s are independent. However, I haven't been convinced by the arguments presented for this. Why does the reasoning we used to conclude that the $N_j$'s are negatively correlated not apply to the $X_j$'s as well?
The fact that $X_j$'s are independent follows directly from the fact that a Poisson process can split into one with rate $\lambda p$ and one with rate $\lambda (1-p)$ (but of course here it splits into $N$ such processes, not just $2$ such processes). So that's the "math" explanation.
If you would like a more "intuitive" explanation, esp. on why the $X_j$'s behave differently from the $N_j$'s, try this hand-wavy one. Imagine $N=2$, and you get $1$ coupon, then it is either type $1$ or $2$, and they are mutually exclusive (or "negatively correlate"). But if you wait $1$ unit of time in the Poisson formulation, you can get any number of coupons of either type. Crucially, the fact that you get one (or more) coupon of type $1$ does not affect the prob of you getting one (or more) coupon of type $2$ in that same unit of time - that is the magic of splitting Poisson processes. E.g. imagine you get a type-$1$ coupon in at time $t=0.6$, that does not change the prob that you get a type-$2$ coupon in the time interval $(0.6,0.6+\epsilon]$ for any $\epsilon$.
Allow me to vaguely define $A_i$ as the event "getting a coupon of type $i$" (under some to-be-specified circumstances), then:
Conditioned on you getting $1$ coupon (total), then $A_1, A_2$ are mutually exclusive.
In fact, for any $n \in \mathbb{N}, T \in \mathbb{R}$, conditioned on you waiting $T$ time and getting $n$ coupons (total), then $A_1, A_2$ are dependent ("negatively correlated").
But, conditioned on you waiting $1$ unit of time (and no further conditioning on how many total coupons you got during that time), then $A_1, A_2$ are independent - and this is a non-trivial fact based on splitting Poisson processes.
Am I helping or am I just being repetitive? :)