So I was wondering if you were given a sample within a population of unknown size, how you would determine the chance that the population's mean is less than $3$. The sample is $\text{{1, 3, 3, 5, 9}}$. I know about the standard deviation ($3.03$) and mean of the sample ($4.2$), that the population is normally distributed, and the expected value of the population's mean ($4.2$).
My approach to the problem was to assume population size $5$, find its standard deviation, and find the probability that the population mean is less than $3$. Then repeat with population size $6, 7, 8, 9...$ and find the average of the probabilities since each population size is equally likely. This is how the math looks like: $$P(\mu \leq 3) = \lim_{t \to \infty} \frac {\sum ^{t}_{i = 5} P_i(\mu_i \leq 3)}{t-5}$$ where $P_i$ is the probability that the mean is less than $3$ for population size $i$. Unfortunately, I cannot find this function without knowing the standard deviation of the population. How do I find the standard deviation knowing this information (in $1$st paragraph)?
This is the kind of question that Bayesian statistics answers.
The traditional way of doing statistics that gets covered early on (AP statistics, for instance) is called frequentist statistics. It is not that frequentist statistics gets it wrong or is worthless, but frequentist statistics cannot and should not answer this question.
Frequentist statistics answers how likely it is to get a mean of at least 4.2, under the assumption that the population has a mean of 3, which is somewhat of the reverse of what you seek. (This is just about the definition of a p-value.)
Bayesian statistics, however, combines your observations with some prior beliefs; this is the prior distribution. If you believe, before collecting data, that you have a population that’s $N(3,1)$, your five observations do not change your belief very much. The combination of prior beliefs and data form the posterior distribution of $\mu$, which would allow you to calculate the probability that $\mu<3$.
However, you must make some assumption for that prior belief. Without that, the question cannot be answered.