Let $V=V_{n}(q)$ be a $n$ dimensional vector space over the finite field $\mathbb{F}_{q}$ and let $(,)$ be a symmetric bilinear form on $V$. Fix $v\in V$. I would like to show that there exists a vector $w\in \langle v\rangle^{\bot}$ such that $(v,v).(w,w)$ is a square in $\mathbb{F}_{q}$.
I'm not sure why such a $w$ must exist?
I would really appreciate any help. Thanks!
Presumably zero is not a square for you for otherwise $w=0$ works :-)
In general the claim is false. Consider for example the case $q=3$, $n=2$ and the symmetric bilinear form $$ ((x_1,x_2),(y_1,y_2))=2x_1y_1+x_2y_2. $$ If $v=(1,0)$, then $(v,v)=2$ is a non-square. The orthogonal complement $\langle v\rangle^\perp$ is spanned by $(0,1)$, so we must use $w=(0,a)$ for some $a\neq0$. But $$(w,w)=a^2,$$ so $$(v,v)(w,w)=2a^2,$$ which is a non-square for all choices of $a$.
The claim does hold if we make a few additional assumptions. I am not sure about the most general case, but I can prove it, if we assume that $(v,v)\neq0$, $n\ge3$ and that $(\ ,\ )$ is non-degenerate. Assuming these (hoping that these condition are met in the case where you want to apply this).
If $q$ is even, then all the elements of $\Bbb{F}_q$ are squares and there is nothing to prove.
Assume $q$ is odd. Everything that follows revolves about the fact that in $\Bbb{F}_q^*$ the product of two non-squares is a square, as is the product of two squares but the product of a square and a non-square is a non-square. If you are not familiar with this, you should first refresh those bits.
The non-degeneracy of $(\ ,\ )$ means that $W=\langle v\rangle^\perp$ is at least 2-dimensional. The restriction of $(\ ,\ )$ to $W$ is still non-degenerate and, because $q$ is odd, it is diagonalizable. So we can choose two linearly independent vectors $\{w_1,w_2\}$ in $W$ such that we have $$ f(x,y):=(xw_1+yw_2,xw_1+yw_2)=d_1x^2+d_2y^2 $$ for some non-zero constants $d_1,d_2\in\Bbb{F}_q$. It suffices to show that there exist points $(x,y)$ such that $f(x,y)$ is a square and also points $(x,y)$ such that $f(x,y)$ is a non-square.