Problem: In the perspective plane $\mathbb{P}^2$, given a conic $(S)$ and a line $d$ having no intersection with $(S)$. Fixed two points $I$ and $J$ on $d$. Take a variety point $M$ such that the tangents from $M$ to $(S)$ intersect $d$ at two points $R$ and $S$ such that $(IJRS)=-1$. Prove the locus of $M$ is a conic passing through $I$ and $J$.
Here is what I've discovered so far.
Let the tangents from $I$ and $J$ touch $(S)$ at $I_1,I_2$ and $J_1,J_2$ respectively. Then the locus of $M$ is the conic passing through $I,I_1,I_2,J,J_1,J_2$. I also proved those 6 points lie on a conic (let's call it $(S')$).
Take any point on $(S')$, call $A$. Then the intersection $A_1, A_2$ of two tangents from $A$ to $(S)$ and $d$ satisfy $(IJ,A_1A_2)=-1$. Now I'm stucking at proving this claim.
2'. Something that might be useful for proving 2: Let $P$ the polar of $d$ wrt $(S)$. Then $PI$ and $PJ$ tangent to $(S')$.
Can I have some hints for the next steps? Any ideas would be appreciated. Thanks for reading.

The other answer here uses a proof by Milne that claims "range (c)=range(d)". What does that mean?
On page 29 the notations "range (a)" and "pencil P(a)" are defined. For our purposes, a "range" is any collection of collinear points and a "pencil" is any collection of concurrent lines. Often ranges and pencils contain just four elements so that we can take cross ratios, but in general they contain an arbitrary number of elements.
(Chapter IV is worth a read, or at least a skim)
Unfortunately, I cannot find any explicit definition by Milne of what is meant by "range(a)=range(b)" or "pencil P(a)= pencil P'(a')". From context is seems to be that "range(a)=range(b)" means the two are homographic. In fact, on page 187 pencils and ranges are said to be equal (homographic) as in:
Does this help? Getting back to your question, I interpret
as
"Because range(c) is homographic to range(d) the pencil A(P) is homographic to B(P)"
In all of the above, ranges and pencils are held to be homographic because they preserve cross ratios. In particular, you should verify that the conjugacy $c \to d$ preserves cross ratio and thus is homographic.